Villagers, those with more experience in this field dating long term, married, living together…
Its End of the week you are tired, bored & very disinterred… Its been a very long week. As a business owner you have a lot on your mind - Several bounced cheques, salaries are due, rent is due, meeting with KRA which you keep postponing…
Since you are a health freak you hit the gym to blow some stress, heavy deadlifts! back workout… you blow some steam but you now extra tired! You reach home wife ndo huyu surprise romantic evening…:eek:.
How do you hepa this maneno? what’s your excuse / escape strategy when you are not feeling hiyo stori ya threshold kabsaa na mwenzio ndo huyu ako moods mbaya!!!
You better hit that thing and hit it well and long otherwise hapo ndio pepo mbaya ya akina Wafula (soldier) Mutiso (driver) huanza kukagua syindu sya mutongoi.
@Salima, Man Up. Never avoid wifey or mpango wa kando when they are in the mood. Reach deep down and perform like a mad Mathare man. Wacha excuse ati a lot on your mind… or tired from the gym. Kwani gym is for your six pack and not for stamina ?
Yaaaani unataka Kuhepa, don’t come crying here one day that your wife cheated on you, though try and work out on that situation, I once found myself involved with a construction worker’s wife not knowingly and it went on for like 2months ndo nijue, I had to block the number na kuhama nilipojua
Tafuta helpers- dildos or "let the fingers do the walking ".maybe during that time jembe itaamuka.
But on a serious note it’s normal for men when they reach over 30s to be this way. These are some of challenges ya ndoa. Sometimes when you are in the mood yeye hayuko and when she is ,wewe hauko. Ndio mnaambiwa ndoa sio rahisi nikuvumiliana.
you don’t want to use viagra this early man. There is no definate solution to this just don’t be anxious and flow with it.if you have a good wife she will be supportive and understanding. But know it’s normal when you hit over 30s.na pia communication, ambia yeye ukweli wa mambo.