Men who have married average-looking women,I have a question for you

#1
Senior bachelors, leo mkae kando safazali. Today I'm addressing the married folks - who I know are quite many here.

I have been to a couple of 'high profile' weddings lately, and one thing that stands out is how 'average-looking' the brides are. I mean these are ladies that one wouldn't look at twice on the streets, but the niggas who are wedding them are nothing short of loaded. The same goes with my nearly all my married colleagues and pals, wameoa madem who are borderline ugly, average-looking at best. But the hot ones, yello yello, big ass, voluptuous breasts whom negroes salivate here are remaining unmarried or just winding up as single mothers.

Why is it so? Married men with some average-looking spouses how did y'all make that decision to overlook those pretty young things in lieu of what u have. Ama u just settled kwenye mfuko imefikia? :D:D:D:D
 
#6
I'll bite.

Not married but in a LTR headed there. Now she's not ugly by any means, or even average really, but not quite as hot as I have dated in the past. In my observation; average women actually have to develop character and personality to 'survive' in the dating market while hot/pretty girls can coast on their looks/ass alone. So an average/ugly woman actually has something concrete to bring to the relationship while a hot woman will have niggas tripping over their ball sacks to slide in the DMs after she posts a #WokeUpLikeThis photo.

Anecdotal example: I am in the 'Jua Kali' industry so my current girlfriend can pick up hints on how my week/month has gone money wise. If she gets the feeling I didn't make bank, she won't make requests to go out on dates etc, she'll bring over beer on the weekends; small small things that show she has my back.

I'll sum up my previous girlfriend in one story (she was hot as shit): We went to one of those terrific Tuesdays at Pizza Inn with her girlfriends and I got us two pizzas so we have four in total. We eat two and two are left. I'm supposed to take one home and my EX takes the other. So this girl eats all the toppings from one of the extra pizza before we leave. Just the goddamn toppings so now it's just a large crust now. God bless her heart she really expected I'd be the one to take home the crust and her the full pizza.

Anyway, long story short hot girls are entitled like you wouldn't believe, average girls who know they can't do better than you will go to the ends of the world for you.
 
#8
I'll bite.

Not married but in a LTR headed there. Now she's not ugly by any means, or even average really, but not quite as hot as I have dated in the past. In my observation; average women actually have to develop character and personality to 'survive' in the dating market while hot/pretty girls can coast on their looks/ass alone. So an average/ugly woman actually has something concrete to bring to the relationship while a hot woman will have niggas tripping over their ball sacks to slide in the DMs after she posts a #WokeUpLikeThis photo.

Anecdotal example: I am in the 'Jua Kali' industry so my current girlfriend can pick up hints on how my week/month has gone money wise. If she gets the feeling I didn't make bank, she won't make requests to go out on dates etc, she'll bring over beer on the weekends; small small things that show she has my back.

I'll sum up my previous girlfriend in one story (she was hot as shit): We went to one of those terrific Tuesdays at Pizza Inn with her girlfriends and I got us two pizzas so we have four in total. We eat two and two are left. I'm supposed to take one home and my EX takes the other. So this girl eats all the toppings from one of the extra pizza before we leave. Just the goddamn toppings so now it's just a large crust now. God bless her heart she really expected I'd be the one to take home the crust and her the full pizza.

Anyway, long story short hot girls are entitled like you wouldn't believe, average girls who know they can't do better than you will go to the ends of the world for you.
interesting argument there fella
 
#11
I'll bite.

Not married but in a LTR headed there. Now she's not ugly by any means, or even average really, but not quite as hot as I have dated in the past. In my observation; average women actually have to develop character and personality to 'survive' in the dating market while hot/pretty girls can coast on their looks/ass alone. So an average/ugly woman actually has something concrete to bring to the relationship while a hot woman will have niggas tripping over their ball sacks to slide in the DMs after she posts a #WokeUpLikeThis photo.

Anecdotal example: I am in the 'Jua Kali' industry so my current girlfriend can pick up hints on how my week/month has gone money wise. If she gets the feeling I didn't make bank, she won't make requests to go out on dates etc, she'll bring over beer on the weekends; small small things that show she has my back.

I'll sum up my previous girlfriend in one story (she was hot as shit): We went to one of those terrific Tuesdays at Pizza Inn with her girlfriends and I got us two pizzas so we have four in total. We eat two and two are left. I'm supposed to take one home and my EX takes the other. So this girl eats all the toppings from one of the extra pizza before we leave. Just the goddamn toppings so now it's just a large crust now. God bless her heart she really expected I'd be the one to take home the crust and her the full pizza.

Anyway, long story short hot girls are entitled like you wouldn't believe, average girls who know they can't do better than you will go to the ends of the world for you.
I hope you ditched her ass immediately she pulled off this shit. That one is a trash human being. It's sad that most niggas would still tolerate such stupid behavior from an entitled woman just because they want to f**k her.
 

Sambamba

Village Elder
#13
It must be dreadful going to events with an ugly wife. Watu watasema nini.
I know she is a good mother to your kids she is a good cook and helper but SHE IS UGLY. period. In this town where optics is everything, your currency rises and depreciates depending on the car you are driving and the woman on your tow.
Kuna wedding nilienda last year with two hot under 24 yr olds and ni kama my friends walikatazwa kuongea na Mimi. They really wanted my company but their ugly and average looking wives would not let them come near me. Evening party - after their wives blacked out on 4 guaranas - ndio wengi waki confess how they feel suffocated.
Anyway to each his own I say. Honestly, since women bring very little to the table I might as well maximize what I value in a woman. Looks and youthfulness are very important to me.
 
#17
It must be dreadful going to events with an ugly wife. Watu watasema nini.
I know she is a good mother to your kids she is a good cook and helper but SHE IS UGLY. period. In this town where optics is everything, your currency rises and depreciates depending on the car you are driving and the woman on your tow.
Kuna wedding nilienda last year with two hot under 24 yr olds and ni kama my friends walikatazwa kuongea na Mimi. They really wanted my company but their ugly and average looking wives would not let them come near me. Evening party - after their wives blacked out on 4 guaranas - ndio wengi waki confess how they feel suffocated.
Anyway to each his own I say. Honestly, since women bring very little to the table I might as well maximize what I value in a woman. Looks and youthfulness are very important to me.
It all depends on how you look at the world. A high-value man always looks at the world like a balance sheet - assets and liabilities. Youth and beauty are assets the same way your car is an asset. It's constantly depreciating in value and costing you money. If you have this basic understanding anyone driving a V8 and laughing at your nondescript car is a fool in your eyes. Same as the person laughing at your ugly wife - her value is not based on what other people think or say about her. You have done the cost benefit analysis and made the most intelligent decision given the variables.

This shit of status is dangerous. There is a saying that "You cannot think in terms of winning or losing when what is at stake is the opinion of a fool."
 

Micymas

Village Elder
#19
shida ya dem mhot ni ile mistari yeye hutupiwa per day. At the end of it, her ego is so inflated, she is always convince that if she holds out a lil longer, someone better is coming. She don want to jinx that by choosing anyone, so she waits and waits, and waits and waits an waits
 
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#20
I'll sum up my previous girlfriend in one story (she was hot as shit): We went to one of those terrific Tuesdays at Pizza Inn with her girlfriends and I got us two pizzas so we have four in total. We eat two and two are left. I'm supposed to take one home and my EX takes the other. So this girl eats all the toppings from one of the extra pizza before we leave. Just the goddamn toppings so now it's just a large crust now. God bless her heart she really expected I'd be the one to take home the crust and her the full pizza.
Swali ni, ulibeba pizza gani nyumbani? Ama ulikuwa gentleman ukampatia full pizza?
 

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