Let me simplify this for you
@jerrydubiz
Pros of marriage
1. Procreation and providing your kids with a nuclear family set up
2. Conjugal rights (not necessarily free because you pay for it indirectly)
3. Companionship (compromised by point 1 below)
Cons of marriage
1. Lack of peace and incessant nagging from wife
2. A financially demanding arrangement
3. Infidelity from partner and possibility of acquiring AIDS and STIs from the watchman/nduthi guy/ office lover, etc as a a result of your wife's escapades.....kunguru hafugiki
4. Inability to pursue extramarital affairs and likelihood of your transformer being bitten off, being stabbed, being burned in your Subaru, etc in case you are found out
5. Having to pay a fortune in bride price or being held forever in debt by your inlaws for failure to pay.
So MGTOW chooses what works for them/ makes them happy and such should be the basic principle of life.