Now I have this good family friend of mine we meet as usual at a Local bar Mature guy earns a good salary and supports His family to the best of his abilities. His wife is very very beautiful (I know what you thinking ,but simezei mate -siwezi mfanyia hivo), she got everything a man could ever wish for in a woman. So he tells me how they met.
Well she was a call-girl, a hardcore prostitute that he used to bang whenever he felt like.
So Earlier in his life, almost 70% of his salary went to prostitutes 10% to his mom Hio ingine ni ya kusurvive .well he fell in love with her knowing what she does. They got used to each other she too falling in love with him but she continued with her business(interesting?). It reached a point where he couldn’t withhold the jeolousy everytime he was thinking of other men fucking her like crazy.(haha that’s it) so he had to do something about it and proposed to her and luckily she accepted and got married. She changed his life, got him in order, made him a man. stayed for a whole two years without even thinking of going for a prostitute until one day the wife admitted to have slept with one of her clients whilst they were still married.She said she wanted to come clean because what she did was bugging her.
As we are talking he tells me…
"I wish she hadn’t(exactly!). I wish she could’ve just stayed with the secret and change without telling me or confess to stranger if it was bothering her. "
That definitely changed something about him, congratulated her for a job well done in informing Him what had happened. Told her with that spirit, they would have a very strong marriage. He didn’t ask her why she slept with that guy, to this day he has never asked.(would you?) Maybe he couldn’t take the answer, and was not ready for her answer. Now The next day, he went and fucked a prostitute, he has been fucking prostitutes again atleast three times a week till then. sometimes he makes love to his wife but not as often as before. He feels like his losing her as days go by.now back to life before he met his wife. She earns a good salary nowadays so she doesn’t notice because he has not reduced the money she gives her for house expenditure.He wants his marriage to succeed because They are expecting a baby but his having traumas.
What do you think villagers?
Does he ask her if the baby is his?, or ask if he satisfies her sexually? Or if she has ever slept with another person whilst in marrage?.
He is Totally confused and not ready for the answers He might get. Now he opts for weed, alcohol and prostitutes, i know it’s wrong but he can’t help himself.
Believe you me I have tried but nothing.
I hope after the birth of his baby(fingers crossed), His mind will be at ease.