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kasaman

Village Elder
#81
Hey guys,i'm new in this forum,but i've been following as a guest though.
It is time i put my hekaya here and get an opinion from the elders.
There's this lady nlipachika mimba when she was in campus and i ended up marrying her.She moved in continued with her education until her pregnancy was 7 months she couldn't continue ju ya complications.she deferred for one year.Akalea the kids(twins) for one year alafu akarudi shule pale UON,(remind you me ndio nalipa fee) and am providing fare every day,and that leaves me with very little money for the family. sasa juzi ilikua birthday ya watoi,she asked what are the plans and honestly i had none since the previous week i had cleared her fee(65k),she started ranting asking 'We we ni mwanaume wa saa ngapi who can't throw a bash to his kids' ,i felt insulted,unappreciated and used,didn't say a word to her. the following morning nkaenda job kama kawaida but didn't provide fare ,that evening akarudi around 10pm,and that has been the routine. Sasa jana amerudi around 11pm,of course me and the kids tumelala.Knocking the door i told her to go back to where she's coming from,Hapo sasa nliguza live wire and seems she has been waiting for that,akaanza drama and banging the door guess to attract attention,didn't buy any of her shit ,i ignored her until she shouted "ureka atia ta kihii" hapo sasa nkaona amenizoea,remind you ma neighbours wamejaa ,nkafungua mlango nkampatia several slaps akaanza kupiga nduru allover that i am killing her.and because nlikua nmejam i left the house,i am now in the process of searching for a man cave niachane na io nyumba kabisa.
I must congratulate you
1 for being a responsible fucker, and a serious one !
2 for being care a man ! Most men will just struggle to get food ,pay bills and and met other financial responsibilities as the head of a family
One men MUST do is involve you partners in managing the monies that you as a man get,in uplifting the family .
Let everyone wife children other people in your nuclear family get to know money don't just come easily, hard work and serious financial management is very important. NB, eve when you have no financial challenges.
Suppose ,you paid half the ,university fee ,kanyangia half let her see that you are struggling with her education fee , give 1k to bugdet
for the kids birthday part .
She think you have monies hidden somewhere !
Ladies when genuine men say they are broke, for sure they are broke ,you don't creat scenes, utapigwa maslaps
You are doing ok ,remember you are in charge
,take control !
 
#82
On babies birthday, we have special prayers, and a cake, a few family friends and a photoshoot, costs less than 5k, plus it's a day off work. Hizi kelele za 15k sijui watu hutoa wapi.
Babies don't even know what is going on. Ya muhimu ni pikchas, gegi na candles so that you can show them later in life. A few drinks with close friends and that is it...
 

Ghaseer

Senior Villager
#83
nkafungua mlango nkampatia several slaps
Level 1 passed. :D:D
Anyway i feel u bro. Cia arume ciuragira kuingi (Of men get lost in many places). For ur peace of mind, just leave that house, atakutafuta mwenyewe. Coz u know what, she prolly got a rich sponsor, a good ferkboy and a trophy lightskin boyfriend (No homo) :D:D. So she is covered financially, physically and emotionally. Consider the investment in her as a loss and write it off.
 

barbee

Village Elder
#84
Watu wengi sana hapa are inexperienced when it comes to cohabiting with a woman. This woman nakaa naye tulikosana asubihi (just last month). Kumpigia simu 9pm hakushika. Nikapigia beste yake kumbe walikua pamoja kwa club langata. (Mind you huyu ni beste nilikuwa napewa story venye alikua anagawa wakiwa campo). Hasira ilipanda nikamwambia asije nyumbani. Kidogo kidogo mtu anabisha 10;30pm. Siku fungua mlango. (Kwanza younger bro wwke alikua kwangu).
Hiyo siku alilala nje. As of now vile nimesema hapo juu by Aug na toka kwa hii nyumba.
 

Swansea

Village Elder
#88
That woman has lost total, if not all, respect for you. It's time you keep it moving.

That 65k that you were paying fees for a disrespectful, unappreciative woman would have been better spent investing directly in your kids' future. That's definitely after you've ascertained that the kids are yours via DNA test.

For your peace of mind, try and stay away from her. Lest you end up acting out of anger or in a fit of rage and doing something stupid and harming her to the extent you find yourself in jail.
 
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Kimakia

Village Sponsor
#90
sasa if we start judging you on why you had to tolerate a defaulting tenant ???! ama sio wewe juzi tu ulikuwa ukilia asking for advice? . Uliona kama tulikujibu vile unajibu huyu jamaa? smh


we all make mistakes and life fucks you up because no one has lived the moment before, First time is prone to errors and if you cannot see that then You are in a worsened situation than he is .
Usilie brathe sikuwa serious.Huyu hajaona moto ata
 

troller

Village Elder
#93
Bro. You are now living life. The worst thing to do and you will regret is running away from your woman. Keep a good dialogue, talk to her well. Women are fragile. Dont let the moment pass you will forever regret.
My two pence. Go back home. Talk to her. Birthday is so cheap, don’t be too mean. It will cost you almost 15K. Chukua some loan it means a lot to her, The reason she was staying late was a way of fighting you psychologically. But rudi nyumbani.
Beta male simp and future cuck detected
 
#94
Beta male simp and future cuck detected
@muchatha local
I know we called a truce regarding exchanging views on this maneno. But pray may I ask...what is a simp and what is a cuck? elimisha me tafathali. Any other terms I should know? I ask because I am planning to ambush my twenny something old nephews niwaulize where they stand. I can't imagine any of them getting a vasectomy at 21. Niliwauliza if they believe in MGTOW nonsense....nilipata v interesting responses.
 
#95
@muchatha local
I know we called a truce regarding exchanging views on this maneno. But pray may I ask...what is a simp and what is a cuck? elimisha me tafathali. Any other terms I should know? I ask because I am planning to ambush my twenny something old nephews niwaulize where they stand. I can't imagine any of them getting a vasectomy at 21. Niliwauliza if they believe in MGTOW nonsense....nilipata v interesting responses.

Simp - Basically a guy who worships pu**y and will do anything for it.. Think of someone whose entire salary is spent on entertaining women just to get pu**y.

Cuck - Basically someone (husband) who's wife is being eaten by another guy.. Kama boss anakula bibi, etc. Being cucked is having your wife being eaten. Also being cucked is paying for child support and alimony to your divorced wife who's being eaten by someone else.
 
#96
Simp - Basically a guy who worships pu**y and will do anything for it.. Think of someone whose entire salary is spent on entertaining women just to get pu**y.

Cuck - Basically someone (husband) who's wife is being eaten by another guy.. Kama boss anakula bibi, etc. Being cucked is having your wife being eaten. Also being cucked is paying for child support and alimony to your divorced wife who's being eaten by someone else.
Thenkiu so much. They will not be coming near you anytime soon wakifika Muchatha matembezi.:D Vile waliniambia about MGTOW...
 
#97
Thenkiu so much. They will not be coming near you anytime soon wakifika Muchatha matembezi.:D Vile waliniambia about MGTOW...
:D:D:D.. Don't worry about me, the thing about MGTOW is that it's the only way to survive and thrive as a man in the age of feminism..

Your nephews will arrive at this conclusion on their own. MGTOW never recruits, we just watch them arrive one by one.
 
#98
:D:D:D.. Don't worry about me, the thing about MGTOW is that it's the only way to survive and thrive as a man in the age of feminism..

Your nephews will arrive at this conclusion on their own. MGTOW never recruits, we just watch them arrive one by one.
The message is in reverse. 2 of them piped up in support of MGTOW. And they are the older ones:mad:. What shocked them was the fact that I am in the know...thenks to KTALK. Atiii where did you even learn about MGTOW they asked?

I want to stop that silly mindset ASAP. I will also be reporting them to their parents. This weekend. I have started with the one in Oz Sis this morn....she had no clue on what I was talking about.
 
#99
The message is in reverse. 2 of them piped up in support of MGTOW. And they are the older ones:mad:. What shocked them was the fact that I am in the know...thenks to KTALK. Atiii where did you even learn about MGTOW they asked?

I want to stop that silly mindset ASAP. I will also be reporting them to their parents. This weekend. I have started with the one in Oz Sis this morn....she had no clue on what I was talking about.
As you talk to them, remember the Streisand effect.. The more you bash an idea, the more curious one gets.

MGTOW is not a silly mindset, get to know why your male relatives see it as a solution and why they hate the traditional-style of things.. Try to see where they are coming from. Understand their perspective.

Times are changing, I know you champion for traditionalism but maybe its time to concede defeat..
 
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As you talk about them, remember the Streisand effect.. The more you bash an idea, the more curious one gets.

MGTOW is not a silly mindset, get to know why your male relatives see it as a solution and why they hate the traditional-style of things.. Try to see where they are coming from. Understand their perspective.

Times are changing, I know you champion for traditionalism but maybe its time to concede defeat..
BRB
 

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