Mwanamke sumbua

Hey guys,i’m new in this forum,but i’ve been following as a guest though.
It is time i put my hekaya here and get an opinion from the elders.
There’s this lady nlipachika mimba when she was in campus and i ended up marrying her.She moved in continued with her education until her pregnancy was 7 months she couldn’t continue ju ya complications.she deferred for one year.Akalea the kids(twins) for one year alafu akarudi shule pale UON,(remind you me ndio nalipa fee) and am providing fare every day,and that leaves me with very little money for the family. sasa juzi ilikua birthday ya watoi,she asked what are the plans and honestly i had none since the previous week i had cleared her fee(65k),she started ranting asking ‘We we ni mwanaume wa saa ngapi who can’t throw a bash to his kids’ ,i felt insulted,unappreciated and used,didn’t say a word to her. the following morning nkaenda job kama kawaida but didn’t provide fare ,that evening akarudi around 10pm,and that has been the routine. Sasa jana amerudi around 11pm,of course me and the kids tumelala.Knocking the door i told her to go back to where she’s coming from,Hapo sasa nliguza live wire and seems she has been waiting for that,akaanza drama and banging the door guess to attract attention,didn’t buy any of her shit ,i ignored her until she shouted [SIZE=3]“ureka atia ta kihii[/SIZE]” hapo sasa nkaona amenizoea,remind you ma neighbours wamejaa ,nkafungua mlango nkampatia several slaps akaanza kupiga nduru allover that i am killing her.and because nlikua nmejam i left the house,i am now in the process of searching for a man cave niachane na io nyumba kabisa.

pole.

Have you guys had a conversation about the situation?
If all avenues have been exhausted, take your kids and send her back home.

Badilisha hio handle kwanza ndio tukusaidie ama bado ni kitunguu ya admin?

Herbivore men everywhere, walk away while you can, she had no interest in the marriage. I am very sure she is almost completing her studies. Pole kaka lakini ukichengwa kubali na utembeze kiatu.

I wud rather run out of salt than condoms

We have tried talking about it but seems it’s not working

vile gashui amesema…pole…na kunguru hafugiki

If she was so willing to have raw sex with you jua bado anakuliwa raw…campus chicks are no go zone my fren…hungry campus students,lecturers and sponsors devour them at will

Pole… Where you at right now? Same problem nikokutafuta man cave pia mimi

Yes she’s in her final year,i have already started counting my losses

I think you’re over reacting and being too dramatic yourself.
Who told you that it was going to be easy sailing?
Umetoka mbali na huyu mwanamke and there are little ones to think about.
I don’t get why you left the house after assaulting her I would have thought that it would have been an opportunity to have passionate angry sex and make up to restart your relationship?..

Don’t give up yet, bado mnapendana you just have to learn how to communicate better.

Trying to sound clever, elder?

Niko Thika

kunguru anakupatia signs zote za madharau when you were dating but nigga still wanaendelea kumarry na kupata familia. Am sure Hii drama yote you are getting now haukuanza juzi.

She knows that you have served your purpose and she does not need you anymore. Hizi vituko zote anakuonyesha ni away to show you that anajitoa but you can not read between the lines. Lakini usife moyo braza.

KWANI NYUMBA NI YAKE, beta male manenos, Try dialogue 1st, aki kataa, chuja, remember always to record the drama she brings around in case aanze ufala na sheria, ulianzaje kulipa fee??? kwani we ni baba yake

Count your losses, move out and provide for the kids(but here kulingana na tabia a DNA might be necessary). If a woman disrespects you and you take it lying you are set for a miserable life ahead…You only have one life to live, so dont let someone fuck it up for you!!

Pewa FAXE mbili on my bill senior elder.

Hehehe,i dont trust women,and i know what i can do once provoked