My number? Not today!

How do you react to rejections?

  • Angry and aggressive

    Votes: 1 3.2%
  • Isokay isorait , balancing tears

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Abusive and physical

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Tenda wema nenda zako

    Votes: 4 12.9%
  • All is well, si kila siku Sunday

    Votes: 25 80.6%
  • Tearful

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Lamentation

    Votes: 1 3.2%

  • Total voters
    31

Princebushy

Village Elder
#1
Just a normal evening, taking my window seat kwa Kenya Mpya, breathing deeply for fresh air.:) The lady seated next to me feels cold, requests me to shut the window. I partially closed the window. Her bold move to talk hinted to me that she is open-minded.;)

We had a conversation in which she lied about her name and many things. When the bus was approaching my stage I asked for her number. She said, "ni milima pekee ndio hazipatani, nikisema hutapata kuna shida?":( I excused myself, she let me pass and this is the last words she said, "Asante.":confused:

I accepted the fact that today you get tomorrow you don't. Didn't feel good at all:(, but I was strong to the end. Nothing in life is always personal: that was a genuine rejection, better than taking her number just to fill up my contacts. :p

How would you have reacted?
 

MegaKing

Village Elder
#10
She said, "ni milima pekee ndio hazipatani, nikisema hutapata kuna shida?":( I excused myself, she let me pass and this is the last words she said, "Asante.":confused:

I accepted the fact that today you get tomorrow you don't. Didn't feel good at all:(, but I was strong to the end. Nothing in life is always personal: that was a genuine rejection, better than taking her number just to fill up my contacts. :p

How would you have reacted?
reminds me similar situation on a girl who works at a supermarket.
I asked her for number for 3 days, one day we meet on a shop.
She reluctantly gave me the number.
I never called her.
 

Shaka

Village Elder
#20
I once asked for a number only to be told not now, next time. I wrote my number on a paper i was holding and gave it to her as we parted. Those were the days when few people had phones. After an hour i received a call from her, she said she wanted to check if it was fake. After one year i received another call from her and later met in town. By then she was joining kenya school of law. We had a relationship for 2 years, stopped the relationship when she startes being kichwa ngumu.
 

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