Mzozano juu ya watoto

A friend of mine last yr married a lady who has a kid, things have been okay, until they started discussing the number of kids to have…
The lady says she wants a max of 3 kids in total, the guy says he wants 3 kids , and then by slip of tongue he says “nataka watoto watatu ambao watakuwa wangu”, vita ikaanza , the lady claims now my friend does not count the other kid as his own, how will they live??

Ngojea mtaalam wa singo mathas @M2Random ako kwa njia anakuja

mwanaume ajikaushe aseme kama hatazaliwa watoto wake watatu purely his,then akishazaliwa wawili na uyu dem ataenda kutafta watatu elswhere

Singo mathas unless you are dead inside ndo utajaribu kudate/marry…heres why

Guys! the single moms who have multiple children from different fathers is a HUGE red-flag. Whatever her excuse is, don’t get involved with her. A massive red-flag.

1- This shows that she’s a very irresponsible woman. It gives no depth to your life by dating her.

2- She has kids, which means that kids will always be her first priority. which is fine. But if you’re not ready to be a “second” or even “third or fourth” priority in her life, if she has more children, then don’t sign this deal.

3- You are getting a “full package” deal. “Mom + 1,2 …x kids + you” will be your typical date. Are you okay with that? go for it.

4- You will have to deal with her “ex” or in worst scenario “exes”, if they have children from them. You will have to face them all of your life.

Majority of the times, when you are not at home, a lot of them won’t even mind “heating the left overs” and jump in bed with exes once again. I’ve seen that happening multiple times to my colleagues and friends.

Cheza chini … mbona unamwita atafanya uyu jamaa ajichukie.

Asi apologize, aendelee tu kama kawaida. He is being shit-tested.

He is just a fuakin piece of shit that guy. In the eyes of the woman, he is just a source of income for rearing the bastard. Nothing more. Atafute mke.

the man is right, huyo dem inafaa askize venye ana ambiwa, she is very lucky to get a man who has accepted her with that other load, ashukuru Mungu na ajue mwanaume ni kama dhahabu

Ukitaka ata unaweza zalisha 10 children from the same woman. This is a going concern thing you sire 1 kid alafu after 2 years unazalisha mwingine alafu uone venye maisha inakupeleka. Ukitaka mwingine unazalisha bafo and you continue your demands from there. Never negotiate on such issues.

Hii ni ukweli kabisa , the kid is not his and never will be , huyo mtoto ako na babake - she has to deal with it

If that guy was truly your friend, you wouldn’t let him marry a single mother, would you? I mean you were privy to highly confidential information on single mothers from this village but you still left your friend marry a kunguru single mother. What kind of friend are you?

Yea i know of a single mom die hard christian, family friend moved in with the guy she was dating they look so happy na hushinda akisifu the new guy but wife huniambia aliconfess hukamuliwa na ex bado she has also been spotted severally with other guys kwa bar something she didnt do, these kinda women dont fear shit (funny thing they fear their exes more), you cant threaten them and they can do without you most watakuambia hawawezi hamia kwako ni wewe uhamie kwake and you have to love them with the kid, sideline them iyo sasa ni shida

Someone once said in this forum…Step-Parenting (Tho mtoi ni innocent) is an investment with bogus/useless/nil returns.

Mashida zingine hunishangaza sanaaa…mimi najaribu kupanga vile ntauza kidney ndio nitombe Huddah Monroe weekend moja tu, na wengine wanakuja na non-issues. I wish I had such small “problems”.

Kama mtoto wa singo matha hata chukua jina yangu Kama ya legal surname hakuna relationship hapo

Surname? Surname ndio apeleke wapi? Why would someone go around looking for a tether to put around their neck? Eish.

I Know I am fully responsible to the kid mpaka akue adult

What if she gets septulets the first time he makes her pregnant?

Alafu why is he sharing such info with you? Some things should be between husband and wife only.

That part of being eaten by exes is true, kwanza if the guy is rich and takes care of the kid, hapo jua mko wawili , huyo jamaa akiitisha pussy atapewa tu

I dont comment on single mother threads anymore - tushamaliza story na tukafunga