Am in my mid 30ties,career iko sawa,tuganji tumeanza kuingia, but sijakuwa successffull na madame ama realtionship, i think i always looking for a perfect woman kitu nimejua she doesnt exist,Juzi nimepata single mum ako na kadame kako kitu 4yrs, sasa mimi hi story ya kudate imenishinda cause this young girls wengi hatuwezi relate ama wako too shallow, I like this single mum and her kid, i think i wanna settle down juu nimeshachelewa, hiyo story ya alpha male ni upuuzi i wanna just settle down have a family of my own provide and protect and have kids whose existence is me,sitaki nifike miaka 45 midlife crisis ikingia i have no family, i have saa hiyo ndio nasettle down the good things in life are not things
Good idea apart from where you said she is a single mother,kulea mtoto wa mwanaume mwingine siyo mchezo.Anyway,best wishes
Wishing you all the best
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I know what you’re saying, but I don’t know what you’re saying. You know what I’m saying?
Hii story ya ushachelewa Ku marry ni upus.
Which one is difficult…
Looking for a girl your age or taking care of another man’s responsibility
Remember a 4 year old is clever to know who her father is. The problem will begin when the father is around.
umesema juzi and u want to settle? have a very sober discussion about the kid and the father…they will always feature in your arguments
That’s a risk muthuri. The life of a single mother is very complicated and difficult. Your position into the life of the daughter will be limited and at worst, suspicious.
Namtakia mazuri…but hapo sekta ya kulea mtoi ya ndume mwingine…una point…
meza hii pill halafu uridi tuongee… the only exemption is a single mother whose husband was knocked down by a truck.
Do you … Best of luck.
Watu wengi kwa hii group come from single parent(mother) homes but have suddenly developed selectve amnesia or are too cool,upuss…boss do what feels right to YOU…hizi zingine opinions,like asshole,everyone has one…
Wewe uko na watoto wangapi nje, ndio ulee wawenyewe. I hate pple who were taken to schools and their parents wasted alot of money to educate a FOOL. See your life Nigga
This may be true. But our single mothers might have made it difficult for our fathers to stay!
Baby Daddy will always be hanging around “to protect their rights”, and you should be ready to offer this access. Also, any of your shortcomings will be laid in open every time the katoto thinks daddy “could do better” in some circumstances. Good Luck! 
I am in my 40s …not married …so i am here to tell u huwezi kuwa na crisis in 40s ka huna watoi ng’aa ng’aa ng’aa
Relax …ingia 40 bila baggage na itakuwa sweeter
Further, time and time again single mothers have proved not to deserve even the tiniest bit of respect or trust
They are spoilt goods bruh
Boss, utalia chooni. Single mother watakuonyesha mambo, sio wewe nugu ya kwanza kujaribu, endelea tu
Aki ma singo madha… sasa nani atawaoa? I meta promising singo matha, she tried catching mimi na mimba… sasa yeye ni singo matha twice and the woman am nbanging now, her elder kid is like 7 years younger than me na ako nao 4. Venye hao mandume huniangalia. Thing is, mama yao haongezi watoto wengine, amefunga bag. Sasa ni mkamba na aka pudesh kazuri… na peeeessssaaa! Siitishwi kitu! Natoa tuu za project, lakini anakaa mtu nikiwacha anaweza ni-murder!