Never Invest in Any Woman.

danji1

Village Elder
#82
I've always seen us as equal. When some men abdicate their parental duties, I'm baffled and wonder if they are lunatics. A sober person can't do that. Are there types of feminism coz some women are vindictive in the name of feminism? Some disregard men and want them done away with which is impossible. Both men and women are important and must learn to coexist.
 

danji1

Village Elder
#83
My advice to you is to study this topic before making blanket statements. Like feminism has no purpose
My point was how it seems sometimes, based on how some women approach feminism. Maybe they don't understand what it's about. I know it has a purpose. I hope in the end all people will respect one another and have equality.
 

Ethanroy

Village Elder
#86
Of course this only applies kama ni girlfriendchieth, ama kama umeoa career woman (aka wild educated kunguru).

Lakini if you've wived a nice kienyeji housewife, it is IMPERATIVE to invest in her financial trajectory. Should be among your top priorities, especially kama ashakupea watoi wawili minimum.

Wewe sio immortal, na ukikufa, you want your kids to have a mother who can continue feeding them. Ebu kataa kuempower bibi yako alafu ukufe. Your kids will be laughing stock kwa kijiji, as they wear torn clothes and get expelled from that nice private school you're paying for them.

This doesn't mean ulipie bibi shule. Wekea yeye biashara kidogo yenye inaeza sort small domestic expenses, kama duka, cafe, ama salon. Ukifanya hivi, ata issues za in-laws ati sijui mamake ako na shida fulani, hutakuwa unaletewa.
hapo kwa kienyeji house wife ni true
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#87
Let today be the last day you ever tag me in your hate speeches against men and marriage. You’re sick in the head. Get help!
But madam should a pastor's wife call someone sick in the head? Well, all you needed was a little prodding and voila, you snapped. LOL.

Well I have a deal for you if you can help me not to be able to view your content I won't tag you but since I'm forced to see what your small blonde nurse head posts here then I have no option but to tag you until I stop seeing your content. If you don't like it, lump it.

How many behinds did you wipe today? Don't take out your frustration on me coz you could just as easily have been a Dr but hutoshi mboga. Too bad you can't import a degree in medicine like you can a jobless youth to be a house husband.

I understand your frustration ma'am, you always have to settle for 2nd best. Nurse instead of doctor and broke ass husband you have to do everything for imported from across the sea bcz jungus don't want you and neither do blacks who are already there with you bcz you were riding the cock carousel and you were even begging for sex b4 marriage from your imported broke house wife. Please stop hiding behind religion, your casual attitude toward opening your legs is in this forum and it can be quoted.


I don't love men enough to allow them to use me then rush to another country where people don't know my past and get a poor jobless boy for a husband. If that's what will get me called man hater. By all means. I will not be cheap and desperate like you so that people can not say I hate men. Mark my word, that man once he gets on his feet will see right through your pretending to be a Christian when all you want is a boy you can control like a marionette and will leave you as a single mother. You are garbage.
 
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raider

Senior Villager
#88
Last yr in my first post to this village I did tell the village how I was shagging a workmate who the MD had an eye for.Villagers advised I lenga that course of action which I didn't and fast forward to Feb 2021..The MD who was a Kao(had to mention this/beta) akanitafutia makosa and I lost my job..which wa good btw...coz it was a MNC.

Obviously me posting this means I got another gig..otherwise would been hard to endure the one or two insults mtanirushia which are justified.

Kunguru after nimefutwa job...brought too many issues and stood me up couple of times.. Eventually blocked me..Couldn't care less...Guys purpose to improve yourself and women will follow..Learnt this the hard way...Used six months/loads of cash after this chick who at the very sign of an issue alinitoka
what did you invest/how much, ama ni feelings tu?
 

raider

Senior Villager
#89
kamba men have a weakness of being jealous of men around them chewing fine girls. just for no reason. i my case, I was the higher ranking monkey at the office, so he was the one to lose despite tarnishing my name all over and trying every hook and crook to get evidence that I was fucking a colleague. he got no evidence, but eventually, I had him shown door coz he could not substantiate any of his claims. true to it we had a thing, which we managed so well not to interfere with work, but the kamba guy lost it all out of jealousy
 

Proboscis

Village Elder
#92
@Purple, @Finest wine, @ranny, @Akeelah, @Cleopatra VII kindly do not miss this discussion and tag all the ladies I've missed especially if you know some woman who is about to take a loan, pay fees, move a man into her house, paying bills when she has a man and even those who are building houses in men's ushago, contributing to joint projects or buying them even a stick of gum. Let us not miss out on this eye opening and timely discussion please, tag all women who are still building men even if they are not members just tag them.

A lady I know works for UN took her husband to Dubai for their first anniversary, out of excitement and she was used to it. He equally has a well paying job. After some time she realized that he never gives her anything, not for her birthday or valentine. So when anniversary rolled by she lied to him that her brother was sick so she had no money so it was upto him to take her somewhere for anniversary, he took her to the Coast, a very cheap place with not even a bath tub where she could wash her small kid. She was furious. And cried for days. She got married quickly before learning the guy and she paid for most stuff during the courtship. When she complains he says he has to help his siblings so he's got no money to waste on birthdays, valentines and anniversary. She is still holding joint accounts with this guy. Doing joint projects. She cries alot and feels used. I don't want to interfere bcz I believe she knows what she should do but hasn't gotten to the point of having had enough and doing what she needs to do to protect herself from a leech. People change when they get fed up and have hard enough. No need to advise anyone who is not ready to change. Just let them cry until they get tired of hurting and they will make drastic choices immediately.
That woman you talking about represents nearly 1%. Thats an exception, not a rule.. For centuries men have heavily invested in women including kusomeshwa, kujengewa nyumba, kununuliwa gari, adopting your bastard kids etc, yet they still got dumped like trash.. But nobody speaks about it because it is "normal". Society does not expect women to appreciate a man's sacrifice..

But if a woman takes a man on vacation, ama amsaidie kujenga the whole world will know.. Men are taken advantage of daily and nobody cares. (Rent, gas, salon). But look at how you take an exception and make a whole fuss out of it.
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#93
That woman you talking about represents nearly 1%. Thats an exception, not a rule.. For centuries men have heavily invested in women including kusomeshwa, kujengewa nyumba, kununuliwa gari, adopting your bastard kids etc, yet they still got dumped like trash.. But nobody speaks about it because it is "normal". Society does not expect women to appreciate a man's sacrifice..

But if a woman takes a man on vacation, ama amsaidie kujenga the whole world will know.. Men are taken advantage of daily and nobody cares. (Rent, gas, salon). But look at how you take an exception and make a whole fuss out of it.
So are you now revenging by taking advantage of women?
 

Proboscis

Village Elder
#94
So are you now revenging by taking advantage of women?
Nope, just highlighting the dabo standard, and how men have also been traumatized by abusive women.. such cases happen 100times more to men than to women. But I can now see you only understand the pain once it happens to one of your own..

Financially, women take more advantage of men than vice versa.. alafu tuingie kwa manipulation (and using kids against you). mkuki huwa ni tamu ukimdunga nguruwe, acha siku moja ikudunge ndio utajua..
 

Proboscis

Village Elder
#95
Nope, just highlighting the dabo standard, and how men have also been traumatized by abusive women.. such cases happen 100times more to men than to women. But I can now see you only understand the pain once it happens to one of your own..

Financially, women take more advantage of men than vice versa.. alafu tuingie kwa manipulation (and using kids against you). mkuki huwa ni tamu ukimdunga nguruwe, acha siku moja ikudunge ndio utajua..
Alafu with radical feminism, women are becoming more brazen in their entitlement and justification of abuse.. mpaka wale wajinga sikuizi wako empowered.. look at how they openly embrace hypergamy in their prime years when options are unlimited..
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#96
Nope, just highlighting the dabo standard, and how men have also been traumatized by abusive women.. such cases happen 100times more to men than to women. But I can now see you only understand the pain once it happens to one of your own..

Financially, women take more advantage of men than vice versa.. alafu tuingie kwa manipulation (and using kids against you). mkuki huwa ni tamu ukimdunga nguruwe, acha siku moja ikudunge ndio utajua..
Well frankly speaking I know many women who are used by men than vice versa. Anyway its not good to misuse others. Regardless of who is doing it. It's wrong.
 

Proboscis

Village Elder
#97
Well frankly speaking I know many women who are used by men than vice versa. Anyway its not good to misuse others. Regardless of who is doing it. It's wrong.
Haha.. its glaringly obvious how women view men as ATMs. Hapo nayo umedanganya..But anyway, its good you understand how it feels to be used
 

TrumanCapote

Village Sponsor
#98
Haha.. its glaringly obvious how women view men as ATMs. Hapo nayo umedanganya..But anyway, its good you understand how it feels to be used
Actually I don't, I am not a very generous person to men but I can commiserate and even me if you are my boyfriend I have to ask you for money otherwise why else are you my boyfriend if I can't ask you for money when the need arises.
 

Proboscis

Village Elder
#99

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