Never wish UNEMPLOYMENT even on your worst enemy

Villagers, I’ve just remembered a scenario similar to that one of Lawrence Warunge.

So it happened after college I had no income and I rented a house with one of my friends and used to eat at my mum’s place with my siblings ( 3 unmarried sisters & 1 bro ) me being the last born but they were working and stable. Only my big bro lived on his own but the same area.

Imagine I could go and find that they’ve finished all the food and started talking behind my back how I’m a disgrace and burden to the family. Mind you my own mum was even leading the discussions.

I was never consulted nor invited to any family gathering. So never wish unemployment nor brokenness on anyone.

SO I LOOK BACK AND SAY YOU ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO HAVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH FAMILY MEMBERS WHO ARE NOT GOOD FOR YOUR WELL BEING.

Didnt see the ‘at’,was about to raise some questions

Mimi I trust family, wewe nikama ulikua umekuwa lazy

Family trust has gone sideways at some point for me. Ka saa hii my bro owes me cash but vile namdai ni ka mimi ndio na beg coz sitaki ilete kasheshe,ingekua eti ni boyz wangu,ile nare naeza leta…:D:D:D:D

Haha … We used to eat together kila mtu as a family and that was a policy.

Unaona

I tell you kaa huna income hakuna kitu huezi onyeshwa msee

Families are different. Kwetu unaeza zeeka ukiishi tu na wazazi. When you bring up the issue of starting life on your own unaulizwa “baba/mum, ni nini umekosa hapa?” Mimi ilibidi nihame ki-sniper banaaa. Niliona nimepita twedi fae na bado naambiwa nisikuwe na haraka.

I help my brother and sister whenever I can. Not because they are angels, but because it is my duty.

This was not right,no amount of excuse can explain denying one food. Hata kama si family, if you know someone is jobless and asks you food please share. Families are like that, I lost a lot money trying helping only to see I was misunderstood. I can never do biz with a family member, but i can help where it deserves.

Kant complain about my family’s nobility

One thing I have realised is that women hate helping men after the said man has reached adulthood. I experienced it with the female species in my family.

They will frown upon you but once you start getting money you will see their smiley faces. It’s female nature.

At that age of hustling, the only one who understands are the male species.

Say No to Black Tax.

Nothing worse than being broke

Ice cube alisema ana pesa na nyumba kubwa na haezi furahi watoi wake wahame.

As a man once you finish college, unemployment (brokenness) is hell.

Kama umeoa kama Daddy Owen utakuliwa bibi

Women hate helping any man

That’s quite unfair and disheartening. People should always support their children/ siblings who have not yet stabilized in life.

But you felt bad about your sibling using your car?

Good kweshon,u beat me to it