Of loss of loved ones and what they leave behind...

First of all my condolences to those people who have lost their loved ones… Either recently or in the past.

It gets hard to get over someone you’ve lost… It’s painful, sometimes as time goes by you feel the pain getting worse. Sometimes you feel so empty, so lonely, so hurt and your mind is filled with wishes… We try to cope or find things that would try to fill the gap it works for some and others just push people away. That aside

It so happens that once these loved ones are gone the people who get left behind end up fighting for their wealth. Others even start claiming that some assets are theirs before even the owner dies. Sad.

I remember when my uncle had an accident, we couldn’t sleep that night and we kept tabs on how he was doing… My aunt was at the hospital, all of a sudden we heard her scream and we knew he was gone. He had one wife of course with two children… Back then they were both in primary school. So he had two cars, 15 freshian (pardon me sijui kama io ni the right spelling) cows and 6calfs, 6acre farm, a tractor for farming, owned some hotels and he had built his mansion already… So let’s say he was kinda rich… So during his burial my aunt, his wife decided to slaughter one cow, no biggie Lakini after that it was spending after spending…

So she sold all the cows… What for? Don’t ask me. She then sold the new cars and downgraded to an old subaru… She even got a ‘chauffer ’ whom was sleeping in her house… Gladly my Cuzo hatakangi ujinga and threw him out of his father’s house.
It got to a point she wanted to sell the tractor too after selling all the trees in the farm. But grandma did ntakuacha let her… In summary currently surviving on debts na alichotwa… She can’t even afford paying for kids’ schooling…

I thought wanawake wakiachiwa mali they’d be smart, I was shocked by these turn of events… Hata heri angespend all the wealth after some years or even mitts at least, sasa my uncle wasn’t a week old in the grave…

Yaani some families are left with nothing wengine hunyanganywa kila kitu and others are throwing away everything they’ve been left with.

Life is full of drama.

Accident ya your uncle kunguru alikuwa anajua ,my insurance policy I’ve spread it on my kids watalipwa wakifika 18 years 9 mirrion ,cash in my bank account negative,my immovable properties ziko kwa shamba ya Mzee can’t be transferred,nikikufa avumilie kuishi kwetu ama akauke kwa ufupi kunguru ni kunguru except my mother hata wewe ni kunguru hybrid.

Sorry for the loss. Now you know who brought sanity to the family.

Indeed… He was a good man.

you are very philosophical

She probably screamed when she realized she had to work for the rest of her life from then on.

Crocodile tears.

Hapana patia kijana ya 18 9 Morrison spread it.18 apewe one mirrion airarue. Next 22 and the last one 28 when he will probably be married with a young family.

Niko Na several kids I’ve spread it on each kids capabilities , first born atapata kidogo coz najua ataharibu hio pesa , even clearing secondary ni kibarua.

Many people are unable to continue with the businesses owned by the late since in most cases the owner never bothered to let them learn the ropes or had many business secrets they never divulged to the family.
Si unaona zile shida ziko kwa Karume and he was a tycoon.

On another side note, there is a kid my late brother left behind. He is all things I dislike. He even sold my damn best watch and ghosted for a while before being tracked.
Ni nini mbaya na watu wengine?

This case was different… The wife managed the hotels… Hakukuwa na business ingine… Milking cows, kulikuwa na employees and everything else was taken care of.

Hakuna slices utapewa.Kunywa uji ukalale.

Kleptomania Huwa kwa family zingine.

nakula ugali wimbi.:smiley: kwani wewe ni mtu mashida shida hivi unakunyua uji ulale?

Hii maneno ya bereavement ni scary. Especially when young family involved. Sema in laws kukujia mali, oh sijui hakuwa amekulipia mahari, oh sijui kuna mitoto ingine alikuwa amezalisha. Kuna mali spouse hakuwa anajua, hiyo inakunywa maji. Alafu watoto kupigana na mama.

Hii story huenda in very many ways.

Lots of people find it hard to talk about death and kuandika will inakuwa ngumu. Fellow peasants, andikeni will.

wanawake ni meffi na hata ndio inafanya hata hizo kuma zao sipendi,nikikufa nitaachia mali yangu serikali unless ukubali nikuoe,i can sense wewe ni tofauti

Some of my cuzos are like that too… Kuuza vitu za watu… Kuiba na kuuza…

Tunakuonea 18…finally :D:D:D

I wish it was the case for the young man. Unfortunately it isn’t, making it more infuriating. Only days before a zunye wanted to give me $600 for the watch.
I guess regrets never end, but my biggest are of my big brother…