Hey talkers,
Do you guys ever face anything that rubs you off the wrong way? I have a grandmother and a grandfathee who refuse to go home. They are 70+ yrs of age, old age is slowly imobilising them, they have negligible appetite, sickly and need alot of attention.
Dont get me wrong. Caring for them is no problem but they have this fear that if they go to shags they will be forgotten until they die. So We do turns caring for them, leo ako huku Bahati, next week Pangani, and so on. Its always a mini war trying to get them to go home. Sasa mostly the shake huko home is idle. Noone takes care of it and weeds reign supreme huko.
Now I am just asking our bros and sisters from the Hills (Mt. Kenya and its outskirts) how do y'a'll ensure home is condusive enough to attract your folks to love to stay there especially when old age calls?
Especially for us Lunjes and Luo people, our folks feel umemtupa huko shags ukikula raha Nairobi. It is always comical just suggesting they go home. You have to bribe them.
Halafu this silly mentality that building material poa ziko tu huku Nairobi so they come under that pretext ati anataka Mabati zile ridged, but before you know it it's four months later na huwezi mshow aende. How do y'all handle stuff like that?
Do you guys ever face anything that rubs you off the wrong way? I have a grandmother and a grandfathee who refuse to go home. They are 70+ yrs of age, old age is slowly imobilising them, they have negligible appetite, sickly and need alot of attention.
Dont get me wrong. Caring for them is no problem but they have this fear that if they go to shags they will be forgotten until they die. So We do turns caring for them, leo ako huku Bahati, next week Pangani, and so on. Its always a mini war trying to get them to go home. Sasa mostly the shake huko home is idle. Noone takes care of it and weeds reign supreme huko.
Now I am just asking our bros and sisters from the Hills (Mt. Kenya and its outskirts) how do y'a'll ensure home is condusive enough to attract your folks to love to stay there especially when old age calls?
Especially for us Lunjes and Luo people, our folks feel umemtupa huko shags ukikula raha Nairobi. It is always comical just suggesting they go home. You have to bribe them.
Halafu this silly mentality that building material poa ziko tu huku Nairobi so they come under that pretext ati anataka Mabati zile ridged, but before you know it it's four months later na huwezi mshow aende. How do y'all handle stuff like that?