one child policy

how many of you only plan to have one child / already have one and dont want to have another…?

What are your reasons?

Im about to become a parent and cant decide how many i want. Two will be the maximum number im willing to have.

Is it selfish to make such a decision based on how much money / wealth has amassed?

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I am of the same mind…two are okay. Hopefully boy and girl. There is no point getting kids you cannot raise comfortably. Shida ikigongo they are the ones who suffer.

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I think its more selfish to have five or seven and give them a shitty life and fail to provide even the basics

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I’ll get a cat and dog instead.

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I can’t risk having one. Akitumia madawa ashindwe kuzalisha utaitwa babu na nani? Moreso, ukiitana get together nani akakuwa akikam. I Want five kids and then adopt 3. Ile design in future get together kwako itakuanga kama mkutano wa chief.

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wewe tafuta paka uipatie "urine life’

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I have seven, mungu akikupatia mtoto analeta na sahani yake.

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it seems like procreation is your recreation?

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It is actually my purpose on this world.

:eek:

Ideally 3 but in reality it depends with finances.

I want 2, coz “hubby” already has one .making that 3. And maybe adopt 1 more when I’m in my 40s

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I would love 3 but my final say lies on my future hubbys opinion.

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2-3 is fine…but if I’ll still be financially handicapped mmoja pekee

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4 kids God willing

It’s not selfish, it’s wise.
My wish is that I get 1 kid and adopt another.

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I have to atkeast pass on a house/apartment to each kid once they’re done with school. The way the world is going, we need to help the next generation get on their feet. It won’t be easy.

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I have one. Hapo ndo maisha imenifikisha…and I do not think I am selfish

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Do you want any more?

:D:D:D:DNdio maana ball moja iliexpire?

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