I thought marriage was a bed of roses sadly its the opposite .Am a graduate of FINANCE and CPA-K with no job.I do side hustles like online writing and some bit of farming sadly my wife is employed but in laws wameanza pressure indirectly am sure everyone knows how hard it is secure a job in Kenya and huezi anaza biashara with no experience thats a path to failure.So my village elders what is the best option juu hakukaliki hii nyumba my option niende Middle East hata kama ni kuosha choo its better than being deemed less of a man.
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nyumba ni yako ama ni ya bibi
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kwani hizo hustle zako hazileti doh? ama wanataka uonekane na suti kwa jam kila siku
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Wewe uliolewa
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sasa mtu akianza compariosn ooh sijui my cousins familia yao wote wananendesha gari hawa wanawake ni kisirani tu anataka mtu aibe ama
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Nyumba ni yangu am the man thats obvious nd she got the job thru me my folks assisted her since we are a young family early 20s with a kid
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mna watoto? si umwambie aoleke kwa hao cousins
must be a shallow woman
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hmm why cant in laws just mind their own business or keep their child nkt
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Options ni mbili:
- Enda Middle East uwache bibi akamuliwe na mahustler or
- Baki hapa ukamue bibi aingie line.
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Kama ulioa bibi mjinga don’t blame the in laws. Pressure inatoka wapi unless unaishi kwa hao in-laws.
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Live your life man. She is also under “pressure” from her friends, cousins, etc to match the standards. If possible, move very far away (with your family) away from their prying eyes.
On a related note, there’s a reason most people hire cars when going to shags. Image is everything. And faking it till you make it is the motto. Ata hapa kijijini, anza kusema wewe ni mbirioneya [SIZE=1](kama mimi).[/SIZE]
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funny enough i wasnt invited for the family gathering since me ni hustler it was strictly wife and my daughter inlaws can drive mtu insane literally
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i dont live with the in laws i do everyhting kwa hii nyumba the only thing amecontribute ni family health insurance
nyumba ikianza kuanguka funny enough in laws contribute to almost 50% of the problems to worsen we are people of different tribes which isnt an issue but i think ni after uchaguzi hii madness venting at the wrong person
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this is just the beginning my fren, hata ukipata job, pressure hazitawai isha. Kaa mi ni we, nakimbia mbali sana kutoka kwa hio familia,
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Maybe ungeambia hao inlaws hivyo nkt!
thats my option juu naona tutakosana mapema
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If i were you i’d be posting this Somewhere in the Middle East…write back when you get there…
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mapenzi hufanya mwanaume akuwe mjinga sadly hata kama unaungua utakaa ndani ya moto tu
middle east is not in my options siezi achia mandume wakamue nikilisha
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