You pay after she has carried your son to full term. Yaani amekuzalia mwana. That’s when you start investing in her. Kama hajakutolea copy then shule ajilipie
In matters of paying fees only, the definition of a kunguru is a woman who hasn’t given you kids. This definition is for schoolfees issues only and changes in other contexts
Just another fool and his money. This will keep happening until men learn that the only woman worth educating is the mother of your children, for your children’s sake.