Parents

[kingsolomonn2016]

How many of you have cut off a parent for good. How is the experience going and ow would you feel if they died.

 

[Guru]

No matter the circumstances, mzazi ni mzazi. Respect to him/her is inevitable.

 

[Theuri wa kigogoine]

It's of no use to hate your parent. We have been through worse situations while growing up na bado sisi hutuma ka mpesa kila wiki, shopping hapa na pale na atleast 1 visit per month.

Karega nyina no gukua gakuaga. (Asiye sikia LA mamake hufunzwa na ulimwengu)

 

[Thagichu]

And what, tell do tell, would make anyone cut off their patent(s)?

 

[Old Monk]

And what, tell do tell, would make anyone cut off their patent(s)?

Maybe abuse

 

[Theuri wa kigogoine]

I forgot to add that anyone above 18yrs should not have any conflict with their parent. Ukiwa over 18 unafaa kuchomoka mtaa ukatafute na kujenga life yako.

 

[4makind]

Unless a parent is into extreme stuff.......... mheshimu but also know where to draw the line.

 

[kingsolomonn2016]

Respect and cutting off a toxic parent are two different things.

 

[Kimakia]

However bad they are don't entertain the thought of cutting links with your folks

 

[Purple]

Blood is thicker than water! Try to make amends with them while they are still here. Just swallow your pride and ego, man. When they’re no more utajua how important they were.

 

[kingsolomonn2016]

iv cut one of them off already and my life is much better mentally.

My kid was born last week, they dont deserve to see my kid either!

 

[kingsolomonn2016]

people think its ok to walk away from abusive friends but for some reason they think they have to stick with toxic family members just because they are family. Thats bullshit.

 

[david mugo]

to all who have cut them parents MBWA NYINYI i have non icry day to day wish they are with me hio space ni kubwa bila mzazi dnt u knowtill imekam

 

[kingsolomonn2016]

to all who have cut them parents MBWA NYINYI i have non icry day to day wish they are with me hio space ni kubwa bila mzazi dnt u knowtill imekam

thats different. Your parents were good to you so you miss them.
Toxic parents are different, they make your life shit. So you wont really miss them when they go.

 

[ThomasOnline]

If you are in a toxic relationship with someone, it's understandable and actually for the best to minimise contact. Parents or not. There's no need to idealize ALL parents because not all are good. We may all have read/seen incidents where parents do terrible stuff to their kids. Respect is not involved. It's simple reality. Getting some space away for your own well being. If one is yet to be financially independent, they may face some money issues. Use time away wisely. One can keep contact to the level they are comfortable with eg by phone. It's a parent's duty to give their kids stable & peaceful environments and one should not feel guilty of looking for them.

 

[MegaKing]

I don't it's good to judge @kingsolomonn2016 harshly, pengine he had a bad upbring.
for good future of his family hw can cut off his paros

Respect and cutting off a toxic parent are two different things.

Leta full hekaya, what happened?

 

[Mzee mzima]

Pwegegege this guy wanted a support group akapata no one shares his sentiments now he's trying to convince himself that he made the right decision.

 

[Nattydread]

iv cut one of them off already and my life is much better mentally.

My kid was born last week, they dont deserve to see my kid either!

That is the kind of vengeance only a tiny mind can think of. As your child grows, what will you tell him or her about his or lineage? Be bigger than this!

 

[MBOMB]

How many of you have cut off a parent for good. How is the experience going and ow would you feel if they died.

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[Circledot]

iv cut one of them off already and my life is much better mentally.

My kid was born last week, they dont deserve to see my kid either!

Soon utajua hujui