Personal time

[KinduKiega]

I need an advice from the married villagers.

How do you make madam know/understand that despite being together in the house one need personal time to do personal stuffs.
Like watching movies,doing some research on internet,hiking and et al.

This idea of someone thinking that coz she is around it is all about her,that all the attention should be diverted to her is killing me.
Siwezi fanya kakitu napenda na amani.

Do you guys go through this in your matrimonial homes.

 

[Thagichu]

Become a priest. Marriage replaces all your personal time.

 

[Mankind]

Ikifika hapo, Kuna ile fake retreat Ya Naivasha ya job unafaa kuenda weekendi!!

 

[upepo]

You told her she means everything to you. Now deal with your lies.

 

[Bangaiza Salinga]

You should have established boundaries way before you settled down! Hapa ndo single men think marriage is all about threshold!
Its seems you choose poorly , you have a clingy woman, who needs constant attention and reassurance and its starting to take a toll on you...
if you ignore her she will think you having an affair/don't love her etc... You made your bed! So you must lie on it! Make peace with this fact that you will always & most likely be the one providing love, attention for the two of you!

 

[OddGuy]

Sisi Alpha males can't relate...

 

[Ice_Cube]

 

[Baby Panay]

Can't relate. when I was in a relationship we both gave each other space. When she was watching Soaps, I played video games. It's just a matter of knowing what your partner likes and giving space.

 

[pseudonym]

Farts and belches will give you the space you need at home.

 

[Guru]

Living with @introvert s is hard.

 

[Tia]

Leta picha yake tusafishe nayo mecho otherwise can't relate

 

[maasai 101]

chezea yeye hii......

 

[paparazzi]

Farts and belches will give you the space you need at home.

Wewe ni mwanaume

 

[123tokambio]

Tafutia yeye biashara ya kufanya. Akikaa kwa nyumba alternative job ni kukusumbua...

 

[pseudonym]

Wewe ni mwanaume

I am not. Just lived with one for over a decade.

 

[KinduKiega]

Tafutia yeye biashara ya kufanya. Akikaa kwa nyumba alternative job ni kukusumbua...

Hajakosa cha kufanya,mtu anafanya masters na badala atake advantage ya time na watch movies afanye project yake,she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

 

[The.Black.Templar]

Hajakosa cha kufanya,mtu anafanya masters na badala atake advantage ya time na watch movies afanye project yake,she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

Mwambie akuwe akitayarisha food mapema

 

[kukuru kakara]

Hajakosa cha kufanya,mtu anafanya masters na badala atake advantage ya time na watch movies afanye project yake,she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

How long have you been living together?
And how long did you "date" before moving in together?

Is it just space ama kuna kitu kingine kinakusumbua?

 

[WuTang]

Hajakosa cha kufanya,mtu anafanya masters na badala atake advantage ya time na watch movies afanye project yake,she is allover,kupika mnakula late na ameshinda hapo tu akisumbua

Utazoea tu, women are like kids.

 

[rollout]

I need an advice from the married villagers.

How do you make madam know/understand that despite being together in the house one need personal time to do personal stuffs.
Like watching movies,doing some research on internet(aka kuwasha duthi),hiking and et al.

This idea of someone thinking that coz she is around it is all about her,that all the attention should be diverted to her is killing me.
Siwezi fanya kakitu napenda na amani.

Do you guys go through this in your matrimonial homes.