Personal time

KinduKiega

Village Elder
#1
I need an advice from the married villagers.

How do you make madam know/understand that despite being together in the house one need personal time to do personal stuffs.
Like watching movies,doing some research on internet,hiking and et al.

This idea of someone thinking that coz she is around it is all about her,that all the attention should be diverted to her is killing me.
Siwezi fanya kakitu napenda na amani.

Do you guys go through this in your matrimonial homes.
 
#5
You should have established boundaries way before you settled down! Hapa ndo single men think marriage is all about threshold!
Its seems you choose poorly , you have a clingy woman, who needs constant attention and reassurance and its starting to take a toll on you...
if you ignore her she will think you having an affair/don't love her etc... You made your bed! So you must lie on it! Make peace with this fact that you will always & most likely be the one providing love, attention for the two of you!
 

rollout

Village Elder
#20
I need an advice from the married villagers.

How do you make madam know/understand that despite being together in the house one need personal time to do personal stuffs.
Like watching movies,doing some research on internet(aka kuwasha duthi),hiking and et al.

This idea of someone thinking that coz she is around it is all about her,that all the attention should be diverted to her is killing me.
Siwezi fanya kakitu napenda na amani.

Do you guys go through this in your matrimonial homes.
 

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