Planning for dates

Purple

Moderator
Staff member
#1
How far in advance should a guy plan for dates? I believe if he hasn't given you weekend plans by Thursday he has no right to panga for you last minute, but perhaps that's a little extreme. Ten hekayas down the line my beloved and I have been on many exciting dates. We are officially dating and plan to get married next year, maybe.

However, I'm becoming very frustrated with him because he doesn't give me his timetable in advance. I like to know things way beforehand and begin planning for them. Last night was the last straw. I told him I'm sick of talking late into the night. It's tiring, and we're both sleepy. Yesterday, I kindly requested him to call me before 9pm news so we can finalize everything for today. He didn't. I called him at 8:20 pm akasema he's busy cooking and then he has to watch news, I said fine and waited. He didn't call after news. At 10pm I was in bed and fast asleep. This morning I see the nigga tried to call me past 11pm. Texts nyingi pia.

Leo asubuhi nimefura kama mandazi, not so cool but I'm frustrated! He called me this morning, and was answering him in one word replies. We were supposed to go to church together, he went alone. There were plans for an afternoon outing but I'm not feeling it. PMS isn't helping either. I'm reconsidering the whole relationship because his inability to effectively plan and communicate ahead of time could spell doom in future.
Sorry for the rant
 
Last edited:

screwplus

Village Elder
#2
How far in advance should a guy plan for dates? I believe if he hasn't given you weekend plans by Thursday he has no right to panga for you last minute, but perhaps that's a little extreme. Ten hekayas down the line my beloved and I have been on many exciting dates. We are officially dating and plan to get married next year, maybe.

However, I'm getting very frustrated with him because he doesn't give me his timetable in advance. I like to know things way beforehand and begin planning for them. Last night was the last straw. I told him I'm sick of talking late into the night. It's tiring, and we're both sleepy. Yesterday, I kindly requested him to call me before 9pm news so we can finalize everything for today. He didn't. I called him at 8:20 pm akasema he's busy cooking and then he has to watch news, I said fine and waited. He didn't call after news. At 10pm I was in bed and fast asleep. This morning I see the nigga tried to call me past 11pm. Texts nyingi pia.

Leo asubuhi nimefura kama mandazi, not so cool but I'm frustrated! He called me this morning, and was answering him in one word replies. We were supposed to go to church together, he went alone. There were plans for an afternoon outing but I'm not feeling it. PMS isn't helping either. I'm reconsidering the whole relationship because his inability to effectively plan and communicate ahead of time could spell doom in future.
Sorry for the rant
I+dunno+man+i+think+_8c4c65cde0fa666280e4008d2c2d9030.png
almost had a relapse thought i was your nigga...i think he is like me no people on the pphone a lot unless they need to talk then so probably consider this when together are yah happy and cormfotable...hakuna need ya phone ama tv enjoy each other's company.Well me i know i don't or haven't found a bitch to sync like that in Kenya find ya'll to shallow but thats my flaw am too exposed too shit expect too much shit...but am the worst dr.phil( i cheat bila kublink and lie about it like poker player even too good women)
source.gif
 

M2Random

Village Elder
#3
How far in advance should a guy plan for dates? I believe if he hasn't given you weekend plans by Thursday he has no right to panga for you last minute, but perhaps that's a little extreme. Ten hekayas down the line my beloved and I have been on many exciting dates. We are officially dating and plan to get married next year, maybe.

However, I'm getting very frustrated with him because he doesn't give me his timetable in advance. I like to know things way beforehand and begin planning for them. Last night was the last straw. I told him I'm sick of talking late into the night. It's tiring, and we're both sleepy. Yesterday, I kindly requested him to call me before 9pm news so we can finalize everything for today. He didn't. I called him at 8:20 pm akasema he's busy cooking and then he has to watch news, I said fine and waited. He didn't call after news. At 10pm I was in bed and fast asleep. This morning I see the nigga tried to call me past 11pm. Texts nyingi pia.

Leo asubuhi nimefura kama mandazi, not so cool but I'm frustrated! He called me this morning, and was answering him in one word replies. We were supposed to go to church together, he went alone. There were plans for an afternoon outing but I'm not feeling it. PMS isn't helping either. I'm reconsidering the whole relationship because his inability to effectively plan and communicate ahead of time could spell doom in future.
Sorry for the rant
How is this our business?
 

M2Random

Village Elder
#9
It's just a rant, you don't have to reply. Keep moving along dear..:)
Posting here will just compound your problems. This seems like some private stuff since we dont know you/your boyfriend so I personally cant relate. If you want a happy ending, try the movies. Sorry to bring you back to reality. What was the objective of this post?
 

screwplus

Village Elder
#10
Hakuna mtu amemfukuza. I think she adds value to the village. I just had problems relating to what she posted. Seems like really private stuff to me.
SnR section bruh she can even take about how that hole stank!! but i get you but she opened up i look at the courage and honesty.
 

Jemedari

Senior Villager
#12
Well, its early enough for you to decide if at all you want to quit or continue with the relationship. But if a nigga has time for news, and can't talk to you at that time, jua hatabadilika anytime soon. So be ready to adjust to his behavior and pattern.
 

screwplus

Village Elder
#15
Posting here will just compound your problems. This seems like some private stuff since we dont know you/your boyfriend so I personally cant relate. If you want a happy ending, try the movies. Sorry to bring you back to reality. What was the objective of this post?
Mzeiya is this the same forum where @uwesmake ana post pic ya momo then talks abot asernali kuuwa nyoka then you attack her for actually briging up a valid thread for the section .Sitakupa L cuz we ni ES but hausaidi kijiji with such posts cuz jua kuna wale hulurk and most people have come to make the snr section an ametuer porn section
Thanks. I wanted to find out whether I'm asking too much versus him taking me for granted. It's time to pull down the thread. Thanks again
Don't dear usiwe intimidated you have a valid thread
 
#16
@Purple, I think you are chocking that guy with endless demands.You have 2 options, to quit or stay on.With the 1st option am sure you will move on but will get into the same problem with the new guy.In short by the time unasettle Ile foleni ya majamaa inakaa kutoka Nyalenda mpaka town not forgetting the mileage metre.
 

chuka

Village Elder
#17
How far in advance should a guy plan for dates? I believe if he hasn't given you weekend plans by Thursday he has no right to panga for you last minute, but perhaps that's a little extreme. Ten hekayas down the line my beloved and I have been on many exciting dates. We are officially dating and plan to get married next year, maybe.

However, I'm getting very frustrated with him because he doesn't give me his timetable in advance. I like to know things way beforehand and begin planning for them. Last night was the last straw. I told him I'm sick of talking late into the night. It's tiring, and we're both sleepy. Yesterday, I kindly requested him to call me before 9pm news so we can finalize everything for today. He didn't. I called him at 8:20 pm akasema he's busy cooking and then he has to watch news, I said fine and waited. He didn't call after news. At 10pm I was in bed and fast asleep. This morning I see the nigga tried to call me past 11pm. Texts nyingi pia.

Leo asubuhi nimefura kama mandazi, not so cool but I'm frustrated! He called me this morning, and was answering him in one word replies. We were supposed to go to church together, he went alone. There were plans for an afternoon outing but I'm not feeling it. PMS isn't helping either. I'm reconsidering the whole relationship because his inability to effectively plan and communicate ahead of time could spell doom in future.
Sorry for the rant
you want everything planed in advance, how now ?
even a bloody afternoonn outing ?
you must be the boring type

impromptu is the word here
 

Kaa001a

Village Elder
#19
How far in advance should a guy plan for dates? I believe if he hasn't given you weekend plans by Thursday he has no right to panga for you last minute, but perhaps that's a little extreme. Ten hekayas down the line my beloved and I have been on many exciting dates. We are officially dating and plan to get married next year, maybe.
the fact that you have planned to get married next year negates the need for preplanning for weekend dates. At this point you are each others sole plan for the weekend ceteris paribas.
shukuru aliamka akaenda church na sio wewe umepitia after church kukuta kuna "mgeni"
 

Purple

Moderator
Staff member
#20
you want everything planed in advance, how now ?
even a bloody afternoonn outing ?
you must be the boring type

impromptu is the word here
Really? I'm not so into impromptu events coz half the fun of going on dates is planning, talking and fantasizing how it will be.