So I am listening to this audio book and I am just thinking of this mkorino girl of nudes. Is there a disconnect between what we are raised in as children and our individual identity? I would imagine that modesty is drummed into a mkorino, sasa at what point does all those long outfits move from being your identity to now something that you do not value but were just born into.
In the Bible it says, train up a child in the way he should go and when he's of age he won't depart. OK. Like me I was raised in a home where people don't stay out at night, so I have never found being out at night normal regardless of what my peers were doing. It just felt abnormal.
So wouldn't a mkorino feel that displays of your nudity to your boyfriend is abnormal. It's not modest. I mean even if the Boyfriend pressured her, if your bf pressures you to drink urine will you drink it to prove that you love him bcz she keeps saying she did it bcz she loved him.
To be honest I don't envy parents. Or maybe I should blame them I don't know. Watoto wameharibika kabisa. You can raise your kid so well but afanye mambo zingine to shock the world. To this day before I engage in anything I always think about my family. I'm an independent adult, so I wonder why such young people no longer fear or respect their parents. For you to do some things the fear of God and His representatives on earth your parents have left you. Wah! Who would have thought that one day a child could hack his parents to pieces. It's like it's getting worse and worse. Even us we were not ever happy with our parents but we still understood we owe them respect. Myself I had a very difficult relationship with my mom but I couldn't even talk back to her. It was hurting me but I knew even if she became the worst person on earth, she's still my mother so I don't have the right to stand up to her and reprimand her for what I don't like about her. What changed. Nowadays even girls have no respect for their parents. How do you disappear from home then return and dismiss your parents for freaking out. Ati you needed a break. I know the break I will get if I tried this on my parents. A break from life. Is the break my parents would give me. So when I see these things I am like Jesus. I am trying to think about the worst thing I did as a teenager I am telling you, the things my parents gave me grief over would make me an angel to modern parents. I so feared my parents that even the thought of doing anything wrong had me scared. Yaani I don't care how much I love you I wasn't willing to sacrifice my parents disapproval for your love. That fear saved me from alot.
I think that serious fear of parents needs to return. Better they don't mess up from fear of the parents than they end up destroying their lives because you don't want your kids to fear you.
In the Bible it says, train up a child in the way he should go and when he's of age he won't depart. OK. Like me I was raised in a home where people don't stay out at night, so I have never found being out at night normal regardless of what my peers were doing. It just felt abnormal.
So wouldn't a mkorino feel that displays of your nudity to your boyfriend is abnormal. It's not modest. I mean even if the Boyfriend pressured her, if your bf pressures you to drink urine will you drink it to prove that you love him bcz she keeps saying she did it bcz she loved him.
To be honest I don't envy parents. Or maybe I should blame them I don't know. Watoto wameharibika kabisa. You can raise your kid so well but afanye mambo zingine to shock the world. To this day before I engage in anything I always think about my family. I'm an independent adult, so I wonder why such young people no longer fear or respect their parents. For you to do some things the fear of God and His representatives on earth your parents have left you. Wah! Who would have thought that one day a child could hack his parents to pieces. It's like it's getting worse and worse. Even us we were not ever happy with our parents but we still understood we owe them respect. Myself I had a very difficult relationship with my mom but I couldn't even talk back to her. It was hurting me but I knew even if she became the worst person on earth, she's still my mother so I don't have the right to stand up to her and reprimand her for what I don't like about her. What changed. Nowadays even girls have no respect for their parents. How do you disappear from home then return and dismiss your parents for freaking out. Ati you needed a break. I know the break I will get if I tried this on my parents. A break from life. Is the break my parents would give me. So when I see these things I am like Jesus. I am trying to think about the worst thing I did as a teenager I am telling you, the things my parents gave me grief over would make me an angel to modern parents. I so feared my parents that even the thought of doing anything wrong had me scared. Yaani I don't care how much I love you I wasn't willing to sacrifice my parents disapproval for your love. That fear saved me from alot.
I think that serious fear of parents needs to return. Better they don't mess up from fear of the parents than they end up destroying their lives because you don't want your kids to fear you.