This thing of a grownup woman being beaten I have never understood. Do you just sit down and you are beaten ama how does it work bcz it's the norm in many Kenyan marriages, regular beatings. Isn't it an abomination to beat an adult.
Blaming everything except oneself is also known as scapegoating. We all have the power within ourselves to change our situations but many will choose the path of least resistance.....sit down and be grumpy.