Marriage is just legalized prostitution in which the man slaves to the benefit of the wife and his offspring... Dowry ya 200k is just down-payment for the lifelong slavery a man will endure till death.. He will be drained financially and emotionally..
Then if he fails to have a wife, society itamwambia 'he's not man enough' coz he's not being drained financially and emotionally..
Enyewe, misery loves company.
So your father is a slave??????????????????????
I love the way men use reverse psychology. They enslave women through marriage then flip the script that its men who were the slaves. Lemme draw you a few real parallels between slavery and marriage for women.
The woman leaves her family where she grew up to be 'adopted' by a family of strangers to the point that you'll even be buried there, from Africa to the slave masters home
The woman bears kids who bear the man's surname, she also bears the man's family name,so her identity is obliterated much like slaves got mzungu names to delete their african identity, they took the slavemasters name. If a woman is kiyuk her identity is that of a kikuyu but if she marries a luo she takes on the identity of a luo,people hear her name and think she's luo. She must follow the customs and traditions and religion/denomination of her husband.
The woman cooks ,cleans ,bears and rears children and contributes financially to this man and his family. If she is dumped by the man shes the one likely to take care of the kids, there goes her finances to raise a man's kids singlehandedly while the man gets anther woman and begins another family with them, a man can do this as many times as possible hence the logic of child support as a deterrent for men who zalisha women then move on without taking any responsibility for the child
As for sex, since 81% of women dont get orgasms its obvious that sex is just another chore like cooking and cleaning. Women come from work go to the kitchen , care for the kids all while the man sits reads papers and watches tv all evening then goes to bed after eating the meal the wife cooked then wait for her exhasted body to entertain him sexually.
Hii si ndio definition ya utumwa?
And then after all this men still want to say they are victims, victims of what?