Punguza Mzigo

Sex & Relationships
1

The young pple who are under societal pressure to marry/ get married should seek refuge at the Ruaka Tithe Turbanacle.

Here we understand alot of dynamics have changed last 30 yrs.

Many yrs ago men were the providers. Getting food for the family meant hunting…running after gazelles and clearing huge bushes to plant yams in Nkubu, cassava in Busia and Ngwaci in Kerugoya.

Only young energetic men could do this. You had to marry and get children when you were young eniugh to hunt. Today, to provide for your family, all you need to do is to board a matatu at Ruaka, go to upper Hill, type a few emails then sit on a leather revolving chair as you download the latest series and chat your mpango wa kando. Do you need to be young and energetic to do this?

As a woman, you needed to birth 11 kids, so you had to start at 20 latest. Today, all you need is one overfed Abujubuju called Tiffany, Trevor, Clarence… Why start at 20 when 42 works equally well?

Anyway, marriage age need to be part of Punguza mzigo iwekwe 39. Anybody marrying below this age should be charged for child abuse, defilement, underage sex.

2

men should marry between 40-45:

  1. the have had enough time to accumulate resources
  2. have had enough experience with women
  3. they are not that old and will still look attractive

women should marry between 21-24:

  1. there the most fertile.
  2. there the most attractive.
  3. less emotional baggage
3

Whether you marry or not as a man let me give you free advice

Get atleast kid by the time you are thirty , by anything hata nyoka . Si lazima uoe but generation iendelee huwezi jua bike inaweza kugonga udedi.

Si poa you are fifty na first born is 1 year old . Ukioa at 70 kama @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii watoi watatu wa kwanza wanacheza 40 . Unanyonya tu matiti ya kabibi ka 18 years bila stress ya continuity

4

Marriage is a personal choice