My fren. Majuu si mchezo. If you're a man of means and sire kids best be prepared for 18 -23 years to absolutely take care of them or you will be taken to the cleaners. Literally and figuratively. Especially by gold diggers.
There was this one Kenyan dude the next state over. He was married, had a nice house, wife and think two kids. The marriage fell apart. He had to move out, pay the mortgage, child support and alimony. Meanwhile another ninja is sexing his wife in the house he was still paying. The guy was so stressed out nearly died in a car accident juu ya mawazo.
Needless to say, the courts mostly favor the women. Look at what Brad Pitt is going through with Angelina despite his wealth. Shida tupu.