Mtu hua ana deal aje na rejection of friends and family kama your broke and still haven’t gotten a job
Accept ,keep calm and focus on your self,eat healthy,work hard on your hustle,save invest .acquire more papers/skills if you can.Been there done that
Get motivated by proving people wrong.
find work… stop thinking about what others think… that’s how you degenerate into poverty… believe it or not, majority of the people around you want to see you fail
My life’s story…nice advice
If you can ask for advise here you are able kuingia online. Bundles Sio expensive sana, use each and every moment to look for a job in your line of work or even outside. Horne your CV, somehow you will get something to do. When you are broke nobody (even juniors in the family) will even want to listen to your idea hata ukiwa na idea nzuri aje.
Cut off those frkn bastards.
Top advice hapo. And watch out. people are so fickle, once that phase is over and you are successful it is the same individuals who will be at your doorsteps for all manner of favours including hao ‘friends’ wakitaka form. Ukikaa ngumu wanasema ’ @Taliban siku hizi ako na maringo sana’
Including being patient n opportunistic
Learn to cut people off if they can’t do your bidding regardless. Halafu jifunze kuishi na kijibamba in the company of self. Do that and soon, you will be a beast. Kitu utasikia tuu ni vile fulani siku hizi amejitenga na wasee na ako na madharau ndogo ndogo.
Msee change handle from Taliban to Simpson , mbwaa
He’s broke. “Save, invest, acquire more papers” noma sana. Aje?
Ukiwa basement the only way is up ama?
Kabsa. Huwa nikama kutoa gari imekwama kwa matope. Siku huwa mrefu na mwaka huwa ya 700 days. Not easy, humumunya mental energy kama guzzler.
He can make it kama sio mtu akona shida ya kubugia mvinyo, otherwise the bottle and him wanaweza pendana kama chanda na pete.
Rejection is redirection hombre. Focus on the bigger picture
I always count myself luck that I mastered the concept of the internal locus kitambo. Every time nimekuwa juu ya mawe, I was always awake not to be swallowed by all manner of shenanigans going on around me.
Best motivation to get on your feet and prove them wrong. Imagine a few years down the line inviting those friends and family to a house warming party of a manshion you have built or turning up in that family or friends meeting with a cool German machine.
It is up to you to get motivated or depressed lad!
Na hio internal locus of control ndio watu wengi hawana. Something we develop pale high school uki cram notes to excell academically. By the way the same principles we apply in school to excel are the ones we need after school. Tuliambiwa discipline is the key to success
Put it as self-awareness / self-realization in broader sense. When it comes early the better.
Mimi I realized this thing in class 6, have developed it over the years. I can now picture my old age.