So a male friend invites me for his uthoni via a text. I’m just wondering…isn’t dowry a men’s affair? I mean we are not related and I don’t even know the girl. So ananiita nikafanye nini? WTF!
Is it normal for men to invite their female friends to their dowry ceremony?
Mi kwanza hii ujinga ya ruracio sipendi. It’s like telling your friends to help you “purchase” a wife. Then unajam beshte yako akiomba bibi yako slices. He actually has “shares” in that marriage. Personally I invest only where am guaranteed a return.
Si umpe excuse huwezi make. It is better uambiwe instead of being left out - maybe in other events - then unacomplain ati haukuambiwa. I suggest if you have time, pass by. Your appearance may go a long way. Just imagine kwa ceremony MC anasema ati friends wa Lola wasimame, then few-to-none wanasimama…
I try as it is humanly possible to attend events I’m invited to…kuna zingine nimejipata as the only friend who attended - and it meant a lot.
Noope you are wrong. What Lola needs to have is some money on her like all his friends, however little. It might get to a point where he will ask his friends to chip in.
BTW Where is the continuation of a hekaya you owe us? where you went empty handed to a mbuzi?