BTW Uwes not all Dads accept Ruracio. Mine hated it and died hated by his siblings. My late Dad always said...'I educated my dorras alone and if I tabled bills...'nitukuhitania'. 'Just do what you feel is right and go on your merry way'. And he added 'na waremwo niwe, bring her back ASAP'. Wharrra man...shame he did not live long enough to 'sell me'.
He allowed the stupid shenanigans to go on but he was adamant. Hataki PESA.
Must you have a personal example for every situation? Mara it's my uncle bla bla bla, my sisters this, my brothers that, my dad, my mum, my boyfriend, my ex, my roommate, my village mate, my flat mate, my drinking pals, my football pals, my driving pals, my sailing pals, my fishing........ Eiish.
Don't you ever get tired?