beshte yangu alipata singo mum msapere he decided to marry her .When the old guys were sent to negotiate dowry i was shocked by their greed .I thought my friend was doiing them a favor by accepting to marry a single mum. I expected half dowry or less but wapi.according to shiny eye traditions you pay more dowry for a single mum that is 110 goats 10 goats to own the child .Hawa watu walinishangaza.Its like selling a used vehicle more expensive than a new one