A friend of mine tells me her lady always asks him several times whether he loves her, despite the guy constantly exhibiting his love for her such as introducing her to family members and many others. The guy is planning to take the lady as her wife. Should the guy be worried of the behavior of the lady who seemingly seems not to believe the guy loves her? Do some ladies act this way?
You:captain
Your friend:sir yes sir!
You: save that hoe
maybe ako anakamuliwa kamu kamu huko inje alafu anataka kutafuta reason ya ku break up with your friend (you)
:D:D:D:Dit is not me… Si last time… Me i was talking about my lady who always wants to call me all the time
Beta male:D:D
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The lady is cheating on him. Ndio maana hizo maswali za kijinga za kumpima akili. Huyo jamaa akule hiyo coomer na aingie mitini.
We have undoubtedly proven that my friend = you. So my friend, in the wise words of mijinga @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii take your slices and bounce
Okay no problem about that. I am interested with the advice only
i actually believe she is cheating and comparing the new guy’s affection and attention to the current boyfriend… she is weighing her options so anashangaa this boyfriend isn’t treating her like the new guy is … women behave like this when they are cheating…
Telling her and exhibiting love are two different things. There’s a book called “The five love languages” that you must read. Your gf must be the type who experiences love through words of affirmation not acts of service like introducing her to your family. That’s okay. There’s nothing wrong with her or your relationship. You just have to keep telling her over and over that you love her.
The book was written by Dr Gary Chapman and is a must have for any engaged couple.
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Not necessarily she is sly, perhaps the lady was in a harmful relationship before or simply has self esteem issues.
Your friend is being played…:D:D:D… Expect him to wisen up within 2 years. The lady is playing the game and getting commitment the best way she knows how.
He should be vetting her, not introducing her to family members. Love is a tool in the game and your fella is being played accordingly
Langat si you just say it it is you? then we can advise you given that you might be spending all your time supporting baba Abba online…fungua roho.
umesema ukweli,unlike most villagers here who are quick to allude that the Chick,“anakulwa anje”
No Brayo. We like being reassured now and again that you love us and the children. And from time to time atupeleke mahali and tell us how much he treasures us. We are fickle and fragile like that. Unfortunately!
Of course you do, it’s an endearing habit and it makes men feel valued as well when our ladies seek our input-pun intended-
I meant according to @langatkipro lady friend insist on being assured severally, that perhaps there may be an underlying issue
Gotcha. We soo luuurve it. Him whispering in my ears what I mean to him, dancing with me…mshuri sana. Calling me the mother of his shudren even if he may have a SQ…nobody cares.
And yes I agree. Kuuliza saa yote about his commitment is a turn off.
One thing about love sikuhizi your everything can be nothing to someone else…as @Purple has suggested learn your partners love language, there some ladys kutoa tako inje is more valuable to her than expensive gifts. Men as you fall in love with your hearts please don’t leave your brains behind juu mtapata tabu fulldose.
You seem to adore your married life, it sounds blissful and cemented in sensibility.
I’m truly happy for you
That lady anamangwa nje kama njugu… she just wants assurances she will get married to a betamale ndo akulwe bado .