Some single mothers are hard working and don't need men to survive, they have adapted and are doing good for themselves. As a woman with a kid, she has to make peace with the fact that most men are not ready to slave for children that aren't theirs, which makes perfect sense. It is obvious she is at rockbottom financially and she thinks that a man is the ultimate answer to her financial woes. Most marriages with single mothers are based on financial reasons by the woman, not emotional reasons. Achangamkie kazi kama wanawake wengine, being a single mother is not being disabled.