I recently had a pow wow with a very beautiful,brilliant and hardworking 20 year old girl who told me she's already made her first million and now felt she was ready to settle down in family life What startled me was when I asked her if she's involved with anyone and she told me she had never been involved with any man and had no intention to. She then told me she already has a white sperm donor from SA who will impregnate her and thats her plan for any other future kids. For once I was left speechless. So I asked her why she'd want to be single mother when she's so beautiful that she's capable of marrying any man.She told me that her observations of both her parents marriage and most marriages was one of a place of subjugation and oppression of women. I asked her how. She said that marriage benefits men not women. And that after extensive research online her observations were vindicated. Basically every argument I had she had a concrete answer for it. Later I even googled advantages of marriage to women and found an article that said, married women were no better off than single ones but for men marriage made them be better healthwise,economically n happier.I will attach shortly. She told me that what she's observed of marriage is that no matter the woman's status, she would be psychologically terrorized and bullied by the man until the woman becomes a doormat out of fear. A type of Stockholm syndrome. I did my best to tell her how great my husband is but she told my marriage is an exception and doesnt negate the rule that most marriages are filled with misery. I told her that if she married a believer it wouldnt be the horror/ terror she sees in worldly men. As a believer Ive really advocated marriage b4 getting kids but hii kesi imenishinda. This gal has very concrete arguments against marriage! How can I conVince her since she luks up2me not to go for AI or kids b4 marriage? She really fears men and sees them as cruel heartless beasts who are out to feel powerful thru torture women be it as gfs or wives. Sad to say this trend is on the rise. Women who are young and even virgins are opting out of rships with men to avoid suffering and abuse. They feel tht men are tyrants who if given power thru rships/marriage abuse their position of power over their gfs/wives. Personally I agree that men nowadays are not as disciplined and hardworking and principled as those in their 50s. Many take the advantage of being men to abdicate their responsibility to women who luv them. To be frank, not many married ladies have men who are responsible! For example wea I work many married ladies don't get financial support frm their hubbies even wen the husband are well to do. My point is how can you discourage women from bcming single moms and giving up on men b4 even trying to relate to them. This is not the first tym to see women opting to be single moms infact the trend is on the rise. How do you discourage s1 from this. Since all kids need their dad to father them. Am completely against this action bcz tho its AI and so there's no sexual sin involved I feel that it doesn't reflect the dignity of God. And its selfish and wrong to deny kids a father to avoid being under a man out of fear that he'll hurt n mistreat you. I know there good men from experience. Its not fair to write all men off bcz of the rotten ones who get all the publicity.