there's another aspect people ignore that has been on the rise. most women esp. 25-30 yrs think that its 'fashion' to have a baby kwanza maternal instincts zikikick in. they get a guy, commit too soon and get intentionally pregnant. All this while the guy hasn't even decided that he wants to see the chic in the next month. when the guy decides to bail or gets another better opportunity, the mamas are left bitter blaming all men on earth for their dilemma.