How do men who get married with kids ensure that their bastards are well behaved and don't bring stress to their new partner, since they are prone to saying wanaonewa if the step mother tries to instill discipline in a hitherto unruly child who has been used to doing what they want to do with out consequences and parental discipline ama wenu mumewatupia nyanya zao? I've seen a post in the womanosphere about a woman leaving a single dad bcz his kid is ungovernable. Wale mumeza nje ya ndoa how do you balance your new wife and your kids borne outside marriage.
