Some rich men overrated

#41
Mistake number 1 - You invited him to your house and did what? Eti gave him free food, accommodation and s@x? Someone has to come with food when he want to eat in my house.

If you arent happy in a relationship, it is not worthy your time.
Mature women don't trivialize issues such as food and a comfy bed to sleep in. He's the man I thought we were starting something beautiful with, but he just didn't pull his weight in enough, according to his ability.....and the false promises. Changing his mind every now and then. He calls me a week in advance to set out a date night and bails out the last minute. I condone such behaviours, unless it's with a good reason.
 

Azor Ahai

Village Elder
#43
This is my true story. I have recently been dating a reasonably rich man (gold-digger) who runs two successful businesses, one in Nairobi, but he spends most of his time running his 4 star hotel in a different county. It took him four years to get me (no feelings a.k.a relationship of convenience/biz), and how I finally gave in to him is a mystery. We had not been in touch close to a year. I had a business trip to the county he lives in and remembered he was opening up a new hotel there. While there, I phoned him and he convinced me to go and stay in his hotel. While there, one thing led to another and I gave in to his advances. Initially when we started our "relationship", he'd travel every single week to Nairobi to come and visit me and he would be welcomed by a nice hot meal or candlelit dinners in my comfy squeaky clean house, and great company, not to mention great s@x of course, such that he would not want to leave.

I treated him so well and pretty much was interested in all his affairs, business, personal et al. Sometimes I would book a flight and give him surprise visits in his hotel, which he loved. He liked the fact that I was all rounded, but he started making promises that he couldn't keep e.g. a holiday trip to Thailand/Dubai/Italy, (He has siblings in those countries) sorting out my car issues etc (he promised because he knew you were after financial favors so he told exactly what you wanted to hear/Fisi pro move here then reneged). Mark you, he took my car and gave it to his mechanic in Lavington to work on it, but the next time I received a call from him, he was asking me to send him Mpesa so that he can sort it out. When I asked how he shifted that bill to me, he said that he had no money on Mpesa, but he would refund me. To date, he has not refunded. I don't mind paying for my things to be sorted, but I detest men who lie and abscond certain responsibilities (It is not his responsibility to finance your lifestyle- you are a grown ass woman).

I have a gym membership elsewhere (paid by myself), but with no spa facilities, whereas he over the years has a full membership in a five star hotel in Nairobi. Since he loves spas, he promised to pay a once in a month spa facilities through his membership, he did this twice, but the next time I asked, it was like pulling out of his teeth (another fisi pro move, promise a gold digger exactly what she wants to hear and abscond once you hit that pu**y a good one), so I stopped.

Just recently I lost an aunt who only has one child, a daughter my agemate, but with psychological problems that need psychiatric help. My cousin authorized the mom's surgery to take place without our knowledge, a day later, her mom succumbed. She called me in distress, now I am championing a fundraising drive of close to half a million to clear the hospital bill and burial costs. They lived in abject poverty and with no friends, so the onus is on us family, but my cousins had written them off for doing nothing but con them. While my elder cousin from another uncle is trying to convince our cousins to put their issues aside and show compassion, I am trying to pull resources from all corners including my friends to settle the hospital bill first. I told this so called "boyfriend" about my plight, but he has refused to help (your relationship is business, not personal), yet I am getting support from folks I do business with and who have no idea who my cousin or aunt is. So what use is he to me?

I have now written him a message to call things off by for good. I told him, he can keep his stinginess to himself, as I am better off alone. I had addressed this issue with him before, but he was adamant to change. Anytime I called things off, he would sweet talk me back and I would give him a leeway, but I have now reached my limit. Much as I want companionship, I am better off by myself. It has been three weeks since I last saw and that was a date at Lord Eroll (my locals). Since I go there quite often, I know a few people. I invited him for the last club night and dude was over protective. He didn't want me to introduce him to some of my male friends (one high flying guy that we did business together), plus he gave me a time curfew as to when to go home. He's a teetoler
1. A rich man is a smart man, not necessarily book-smart, but smart anyway. His wealth justifies it.
2. Rich men have had countless women throw themselves at them in order to get rich quick from their resources. So, they know all the signs. You are not the first or last.
3. That man is a smooth operator and a master of the game. From your explanation, the pattern is clear. Promise a gold-digger exactly what she wants to hear e.g sorting her car issues, Dubai holiday trip, spa etc but reneg after getting that pu**y. This is what dangling resources is all about and what all alpha males do. They dangle resources to gold diggers, f**k them senseless and then reneg on most promises leaving them with a bitter taste in their mouth. It is a survival instinct men develop after encountering countless gold-diggers after their hard-earned money.
4. The fact that you gave in after 4 years means you saw his $$. You can sugarcoat it all you want but you can't keep a guy you are genuinely interested in waiting for 4 years. In those 4 years you were getting fucked by guys that you genuinely liked, but not him. You only gave in after his hotel venture and business progress. He isn't stupid, he can see that.
5. You are probably a hot woman that's why he wants to keep smashing. But he is also smart enough to know you aren't into him but after his resources. So, he wants to continue fucking you at a distance with the least amount of resources possible. He wants you as a booty call only and you keep your personal financial issues to yourself.
 
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#44
Mistake number 1 - You invited him to your house and did what? Eti gave him free food, accommodation and s@x? Someone has to come with food when he want to eat in my house.

If you arent happy in a relationship, it is not worthy your time.
Actually Jennifer, mantra should be let us meet out there. Hakuna mtu anaenda kwa mwingine in the current dating situation that is 'based in Kenya'. In my singleton days, I weeded guys out quick based on their neediness to come to my house for dinner. If they are from another African Country, they will tell you how much they love Kenyan food after researching on line....apana.. or they will ask you what are you cooking nyof nyof nyof.....or tell you they are driving by.....and thought of you. YA!
As for my own Kenyan bros the desperation to come to your house kama amebeba a few drinks, eat your food, feel your goods for free is pretty disturbing.
Pls.....
 
#54
This is my true story. I have recently been dating a reasonably rich man who runs two successful businesses, one in Nairobi, but he spends most of his time running his 4 star hotel in a different county. It took him four years to get me, and how I finally gave in to him is a mystery. We had not been in touch close to a year. I had a business trip to the county he lives in and remembered he was opening up a new hotel there. While there, I phoned him and he convinced me to go and stay in his hotel. While there, one thing led to another and I gave in to his advances. Initially when we started our "relationship", he'd travel every single week to Nairobi to come and visit me and he would be welcomed by a nice hot meal or candlelit dinners in my comfy squeaky clean house, and great company, not to mention great s@x of course, such that he would not want to leave.

I treated him so well and pretty much was interested in all his affairs, business, personal et al. Sometimes I would book a flight and give him surprise visits in his hotel, which he loved. He liked the fact that I was all rounded, but he started making promises that he couldn't keep e.g. a holiday trip to Thailand/Dubai/Italy, (He has siblings in those countries) sorting out my car issues etc. Mark you, he took my car and gave it to his mechanic in Lavington to work on it, but the next time I received a call from him, he was asking me to send him Mpesa so that he can sort it out. When I asked how he shifted that bill to me, he said that he had no money on Mpesa, but he would refund me. To date, he has not refunded. I don't mind paying for my things to be sorted, but I detest men who lie and abscond certain responsibilities.

I have a gym membership elsewhere (paid by myself), but with no spa facilities, whereas he over the years has a full membership in a five star hotel in Nairobi. Since he loves spas, he promised to pay a once in a month spa facilities through his membership, he did this twice, but the next time I asked, it was like pulling out of his teeth, so I stopped.

Just recently I lost an aunt who only has one child, a daughter my agemate, but with psychological problems that need psychiatric help. My cousin authorized the mom's surgery to take place without our knowledge, a day later, her mom succumbed. She called me in distress, now I am championing a fundraising drive of close to half a million to clear the hospital bill and burial costs. They lived in abject poverty and with no friends, so the onus is on us family, but my cousins had written them off for doing nothing but con them. While my elder cousin from another uncle is trying to convince our cousins to put their issues aside and show compassion, I am trying to pull resources from all corners including my friends to settle the hospital bill first. I told this so called "boyfriend" about my plight, but he has refused to help, yet I am getting support from folks I do business with and who have no idea who my cousin or aunt is. So what use is he to me?

I have now written him a message to call things off by for good. I told him, he can keep his stinginess to himself, as I am better off alone. I had addressed this issue with him before, but he was adamant to change. Anytime I called things off, he would sweet talk me back and I would give him a leeway, but I have now reached my limit. Much as I want companionship, I am better off by myself. It has been three weeks since I last saw and that was a date at Lord Eroll (my locals). Since I go there quite often, I know a few people. I invited him for the last club night and dude was over protective. He didn't want me to introduce him to some of my male friends (one high flying guy that we did business together), plus he gave me a time curfew as to when to go home. He's a teetoler
Apart from your pu**y what else could u offer him??? UKICHENGWA TULIA!!!! wahenga hao walisema.....
 

Azor Ahai

Village Elder
#55
Actually Jennifer, mantra should be let us meet out there. Hakuna mtu anaenda kwa mwingine in the current dating situation that is 'based in Kenya'. In my singleton days, I weeded guys out quick based on their neediness to come to my house for dinner. If they are from another African Country, they will tell you how much they love Kenyan food after researching on line....apana.. or they will ask you what are you cooking nyof nyof nyof.....or tell you they are driving by.....and thought of you. YA!
As for my own Kenyan bros the desperation to come to your house kama amebeba a few drinks, eat your food, feel your goods for free is pretty disturbing.
Pls.....
 

Mindhunter

Senior Villager
#60
1. A rich man is a smart man, not necessarily book-smart, but smart anyway. His wealth justifies it.
2. Rich men have had countless women throw themselves at them in order to get rich quick from their resources. So, they know all the signs. You are not the first or last.
3. That man is a smooth operator and a master of the game. From your explanation, the pattern is clear. Promise a gold-digger exactly what she wants to hear e.g sorting her car issues, Dubai holiday trip, spa etc but reneg after getting that pu**y. This is what dangling resources is all about and what all alpha males do. They dangle resources to gold diggers, f**k them senseless and then reneg on most promises leaving them with a bitter taste in their mouth. It is a survival instinct men develop after encountering countless gold-diggers after their hard-earned money.
4. The fact that you gave in after 4 years means you saw his $$. You can sugarcoat it all you want but you can't keep a guy you are genuinely interested in waiting for 4 years. In those 4 years you were getting fucked by guys that you genuinely liked, but not him. You only gave in after his hotel venture and business progress. He isn't stupid, he can see that.
5. You are probably a hot woman that's why he wants to keep smashing. But he is also smart enough to know you aren't into him but after his resources. So, he wants to continue fucking you at a distance with the least amount of resources possible.
I fully agree that guy is dangerously smart, a smooth operator, and extremely calculative. He has even made the chic think that she is the one in control of the relationship while in real sense the control button is elsewhere. She has no idea how to deal with this guy, that's why she resorts to openly showing her frustration after flashing a bottle of "wine". No contact for three weeks is an achievement for her, but he has found another way to keep in touch, friendship with his son. but the guy might be genuinely liking the lady as she possesses some admirable traits.
 

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