At what age did you start a family for the married ktalkers? I feel like a failure of late coz ata job za TSC naona bado sifiki bei coz of year of graduation.Am 25 btw.Having a family is all i look forward to having but it cannot happen since am not yet employed.Am a high school teacher lakini covid ilifanya tupoteze jobs za private schools sisi wote. Am depressed coz life is not turning out as I expected.Advice needed asap.
First be comfortable feeding yourself (all basic needs included) before adding another mouth to feed even if they have their own source of income.
Why don’t you look into private tutoring? And 25 is too young to be feeling depressed about not having a family. You have a bright future ahead of you.
No rush esp if you are a dude, ww jipange imagine the stress you have now multiply that by 1000 that’s what you would be feeling if you had a family in your situation ! Take your time !
35 when niliomoka, can’t bring a bunch of nigglets into misery…bado tulia
my friend pata pesa kwanza this illusion that mtoto atakuja na sahani ni ndoto.
You still have 10 more years of your youth ahead of you. Pressure za nini?
Dont rush into marriage.
Know this, time will neffa wait for yah
What do you mean by not being qualified for a TSC job? Everyone we graduated with who had done education in my circles got employed by TSC. They are all at that same age.
Anyway I’m at your age and that pressure mimi hata sina. I have not even thought about it. Mkwanja kwanza bana.
Marry when you are ready.
Great advice. Invest in yourself, build skill then do private tutoring.
Teach yourself to coach a sport or instrument. Will help you baadaye
Buda, wewe uko na unnecessary pressure. I understand because that is how I also felt immediately after graduation, that rushy feeling of starting a family, getting a job and having your shit together and so forth…
Tulia kaka, bado wewe mchanga kabisa. Niko 29 na sina pressure ya kuoa
Graduated from college at 23,got married at 36.At 25 you are still very young,you are supposed to be discovering yourself and making money.Dinya dinya madem kwanza as you try to understand women folk.Women are not easy to live with but you will have to once you start a family.Have girlfriends so that by the time you settle down you have understood the little that you will have for a peaceful coexistence with one in marriage.
Kula lanye na kunguru utosheke
Nachapa 27 this sept na ile pressure nko nayo ni ya kuincrease my bench press max. Anyway, you’re too young bro. At this age sahii invest in yourself. Learn new skills, keep fit, take risks bila uoga, angalia vile unaeza increase mboka za kugenerate doh, read books, travel & most importantly, don’t get in a serious relationship.
Pewa Richot Nusu!! At 25 hiyo ndio age ya kujidiscover. Make money, to explode with recklessness as you try figuring out this world. By that I mean hiyo ndio time ya kulewa viujinga, kutomba every skirt wearer you meet and spend money on yourself fully. Juu familia ikikuja, you will wish you did these things if you did not.
I know a 24yrs old kunguru who was fixed in TSC, at the same time I know a 36yrs old guy who has never gotten a TSC job, he is a Uber driver. At 25yrs you should be exploring
Mimi huona venye watu wameoa wankuanga na stress mob hata sitamani hiyo life
labda nikifikisha 35 ill change my mind but for now all i want is to be free as a bird
Nimeacha kusema venye nimeona ako twedi far… upus