I’m always telling the deadbeat dads here that your kids are not in good hands with their mother especially after she starts dating other men. Take your kids and let your mom or your sisters help you to raise them. In my culture kids belong to the dad and most times our women return the kids to their dad if they are estranged, then start a new life, child free and stigma free. I follow a channel on YT on child abuse and nearly all cases a boyfriend to a single mom is the culprit or involved. Remember that the woman resents you for leaving her and all the anger and bitterness will end up on your innocent, helpless children . Btw this woman had an affair with a prison guard after incarceration.
She should never get over what she did to the children. Gosh, it’s so hard to understand how she could strap her own kids in a car and send it rolling into a lake, all for the sake of a man. The ex-prison warder wants people to feel sorry for him, ati a prisoner manipulated him, to sleep with her, hehe.
You see Truwoman, there are shtick demons.
Well scripted documentary, but so sad for the kids
I’m avoiding them bcz shtick and pussy will make you strap your kids in a car and drown them. Pussy will make you lose your job over one sexual encounter. Can you now see why I take the position I have taken?
This was crazy, she shot her adult kids and herself bcz her husband, a surgeon, was about to marry a 21 yo woman. These child murders are usually over a man.
People get into these kinds of scenarios only because they suspend reason when in a relationship. If the guy she was with didn’t want children, that was no reason to get rid of them. A mother needs to be psychotic to kill her children for an affair with a man. It may be a time of frenzied romping that takes her places she hasn’t known before, but that is temporal and if she knew better she’d surely have valued her kids above anything. But in her mind she saw them as blocking her way to happiness. She could even have given them to their father, other than killing them.
The prison warder has only himself to blame for laying her and then getting fired for it. Manipulation my foot! Surely, how captivating is this woman? In fact even that TV clip from 1994 doesn’t show her as anything that could make a man lose his senses–not bragging, but I wouldn’t.
As for your case, I have concluded this from the limited info I get from your posts: you avoid the shtick not because of its supposed evil power (nothing is inherently bad, thinking makes it so) but simply because you are afraid, sorely and unnaturally afraid of men, so much that no one has been able to dislodge that fear. And I say this honestly, without malice. It feels comfortable to you, but it’s limiting. You could add more colour to your life if you can dislodge that fear. I know I’ve penned a lot of assumptions, but it’s an opinion. This is the truth as I understand it.
I am not afraid of anyone except God. I see that 99.99% of women’s problems involve men. I simply don’t want to invite trouble into my life, so I give men a wide berth. I think I am too fragile for all the drama men bring into women’s lives. I just want to live in peace, is all. Life is too short to be stressed and depressed like many women. The Bible says flee even the very appearance of evil and frankly speaking men are evil, at least capable of more evil than women. I have a very soft heart, I don’t want a man to make it stone by giving me unnecessary stress and problems. I am willing to sacrifice the little good a man may bring to steer clear of the trouble. It’s a double edged sword relating to men and not everyone is cut out for it.
BTW this lady was sexually molested as a child by her relatives and her dad committed suicide. Most women who do these crimes have some kind of trauma in their childhood committed on them by men.
Fair enough.
Universally, men aren’t saints, as women aren’t angels either. But strangely, it seems that women who have been seriously hurt by men tend to gravitate towards other men who also mistreat them and leave them broken, yet again. Like the 2nd case where the woman murdered her adult children. One would think the horror of her own trauma would make her want to protect her own kids against any kind of harm. Ironically, she kills them, then herself. It beats logic that she would kill herself and the kids, yet the philandering husband is left untouched. It’s akin to the kinds of stories where a person claims to love another so much that they kill the person (and themselves sometimes) rather than risk losing them. A very lopsided way of thinking, killing for love.
Its not love. It’s possessiveness. Jeolousy the Bible says, is as cruel as the grave. I guess the ex wife of the surgeon wanted to make a statement to her ex husband that, he would lose everything by marrying another woman, she was selfishly making a point to him, that he couldn’t have his cake - the kids and eat it marry another woman after dumping the mother of his children.
In marriage it’s like there’s an unwritten rule that no one is allowed to make it out alive if they want to.
Perhaps it’s time society started questioning those fateful words in wedding vows: Till death does do us part…