talkers help this girl

Detanimulli

Senior Villager
#1
an orphan
has done Supply chain management
basic computer literacy
aged between 20 and 23
this girl just completed her diploma in supply chain management. She used to reside at a relative's home during her schooling period. But due to reason I'm sure of she has lived with several relatives. She lost all her parents at a tender age, when she was in primary school. She has brother's and sisters, but they may not be reliable.
Meanwhile, she is alone at home. She moved there cause wherever she had been staying a relative had just hosted her to take charity-funded diploma. So, now that it's over and the thinking that she's being a budden to them, she decided to go home.
from a conversation, seems that at home she has nothing to live on, which makes her think of moving to elsewhere where she can at least get necessities. At a point she claimed that if such adversity is to continue to prevail, the next thing she'd think of is getting married, adding that she wishes her parents were alive. Relative are not any reliable, cause of an accustomed enmity.
But we advised that if she got something to live on, home was the best place she could stay, as she looks for a job, cause elsewhere, people may be even worse and this would not make things any better. Again, desperation can easily lead to more suffering as opportunists can easily take advantage to misuse or harass her in her in any way.
Getting married as a way to avoid suffer is yet not a solution. Any man can now afford her by simply taking advantage of her weakness or the fact that she sometimes go without even food.
But, this girl is ready to take any job she finds.
So talkers, if you honestly got any way you can help her, a job or otherwise, just inbox me, I'll link you up with her.
 

Phylgee

The canary gem enchantress
#6
i believe you cant fail to get sth to do....it doesnt matter the level of educ you have reached....at times its good to start at the bottom....speaking from experience....if you are choosy in life you wont make it....
sometimes starting from scratch will make you learn and work harder....people might help you but with strings attached...
tell her that...
 

bubudui

Village Elder
#11
I'm not judging her but when you sit back and start pitying yourself, you'll end up more miserable!
History is full of beings who have gone through worst situations than hers and emerged victorious!
Going back home after diploma knowing too well that there's nothing she's going back to wasn't a wise decision.
In my opinion, angebaki mjini afanye kazi yeyote ata kama ni housemaid bora aweke akiba. Again chances of landing employment in town are more....
 

Detanimulli

Senior Villager
#15
I'm not judging her but when you sit back and start pitying yourself, you'll end up more miserable!
History is full of beings who have gone through worst situations than hers and emerged victorious!
Going back home after diploma knowing too well that there's nothing she's going back to wasn't a wise decision.
In my opinion, angebaki mjini afanye kazi yeyote ata kama ni housemaid bora aweke akiba. Again chances of landing employment in town are more....
she isn't in town, problem is simply where to stay as she said
 

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