I was stressing over the fact that my girlfriend, her sisters and parents are stressing me to hold a large wedding this year don’t even talk about the dowry shit. The issue has been bothering me for two months until I stumbled on this gem of a comment. Wedding Kubwa na dowry ya kimataifa ni wao. I will punch according to my weight and if it is not good enough for them then they can have their daughter for keeps.
Preach brother. I have decided to be indifferent. I won’t let any pressure or manipulation get to me. If they decide to walk it will still be fine by me since I will view it as dodging a bullet and not a loss