Several instances i that i have encountered since we began this festive season has made me conclude the today’s modern woman is lazy and has lost her role…
Recently a group of us visited a friend and at some point tukiwa huko the wife comes and reminds him that he should pay some online grocer supplier who USUALLY delivers their weekly groceries…Yaani a grown woman,sits down(no wonder haga zinakuwa flat),logs online oh her phone,subscribe to make purchases of vegetables and fruits…which the husband pays via mpesa.One hour later a fancy van arrives …fully branded with images of fresh products they supply…and guess what,their location/shop is in one of the malls [SIZE=5]NEARBY…[/SIZE]…Kimama ata bila adabu ushers the delivery guy kwa jikoni where he place each items as instructed by the wife…then on the way out our guy tips the ninja with a sok…dfcuck!!!
I later was curious on how such businesses thrive…i learnt that it is quite big business around these posh estohs…and actually several companies exist…actually almost all these fancy grocery shops you see kwa malls have got option ya delivery around their vicinity.
Aya,kitu ingine tena sai ndio ile whatsap group ya makuzoh imeamka…get togethers zinapangwa…sasa on the budget part,unaona soda,meat,beer,and among vitu ziko kwa hiyo list kuna CATERING EXPENSES…i mean,8 out of the 21 cousins ni madem…hii get togeether is being hosted at a cousin’s residence…yaani hawawezi jitolea wapikie?
When i was a kid,family gatherings got cooked for by the female members…
mothers went to the soko routinely…well,the sokos still exist but the soko-going mothers dont
women cooked,baked and did decorations for their kids’ birthdays…
it was rare to see a woman kwa White Rose ati amepeleka nguo za mzee…
househelps got a whole weekend off
Nowadays in this nairobi of ours all the above can be done at a fee…
So does women empowerment and pursuit of gender equality mean that women should aspire to be like men(which naturally they cant) and drop their God-given roles?
Atafanya hizo kazi saa ngapi na bado apate time ya kuwatch soap opera za kipuzi? Siku hizi unapata ghaseer ya housewife, iko na mtoto mmoja na mboch, na mzee akirudi nyumbani bado ako na guts za kumwambia vile amechoka.
some tech advancement like uber have got value for money…coz it brings some convenience…but going to a market will save you lots of cash and you get options and even get farm-fresh food…so online purchasing of such is just mere laziness just more costly
I personally believe that gender roles still exist. If your woman won’t get the groceries from the market, cook, clean, and care for the kids, she should pay a mboch to do that job from her own pocket. Kama mwanaume hiyo sio kazi yako. The same way sio kazi yake kujua kama rent imelipwa ama watoto wamelipiwa fees. Men should smarten up and stop rearing pests as wives.
the only thing that women provide these days is used pussy. nothing more. ukioa bibi siku hizi ujue kazi yake ni kukusaidia umwage tu. nothing more. don’t expect too much from her. live your life and remember you have a Fleshlight that bleeds one week every month. lakini usicenter maisha yako around her
Look for a simple example , a girlfriend siku hizi , akuje kwako Friday utombe mununue food muenjoy mpaka Sunday . hio wiki ako leave aendelee kukaa uone apike chakula za upussss viombo kuoshwa Ni kesi usafi Ni kesi
Women are great at creating businesses.
Those grocery delivery companies are all over the place these sides but I don’t trust them to pick the best produce. Isn’t their main goal fulfilling orders?They don’t have time to cross examine each tomato or banana for ripeness or to see if the kales are turning a hint of yellow.
As for food catering, it’s so cheap to hire help. Why even bother when there’s a chance the food won’t come out right. You want to eat restaurant quality food? Then let the professionals do it. I personally don’t trust myself to cook for many people, that’s too much pressure. What if the pilau comes out like ugali? Or the stew is under/over salted. Embarrassing!
Stimulate the economy bana and give people work to do.
Mimi nimezoea maisha ya uBachelor mpaka hata hizi vitu hazinibabaishi tena hata kidogo. On top of that sioni nikioa hata kidogo, nitatafuta dem amesoma vizuri tukubaliane aam nimdanganye apate ball halafu tuanze kupigana juu ya child support baadae. Hii upuzi ya modern women sitaki.
