Hi y’all,
I’ve been a guest reader here for the longest time ever. I’ve been reading some posts and thought “what is wrong with you misogynistic f*cks??”. Offline I had discussed some ideas I saw here with other people who agreed with me, which in hindsight I’ve come to realize are some of the most beta minded ideas one could have in this blue pill engraved society. Till nikapata kichapo changu. Here’s my story…
6 years ago I met this innocent (hmm, so I thought) girl and I decided yes, I’ve found the one (cringe) to start a family! Kawaida dating, blabla impressing beta style, we-are-spending-alot-on-rent-just-move-in-with-me scenario. Life is a blast. I visit the parents, things are headed in the right direction. Fast forward to when she gets knocked up. I set up insurance for her to cater for pre and postnatal. Baby boy arrives on August 2016…
New father, yay! That’s all I could think about. Baby born at a great hospital (thanks insurance!) all parents visit, nini nini, we start a family. I’m now sole bread winner but not complaining. Baby reaches 5 months and this is where drama starts…
“I need something to keep me busy!” were her actual words. No problem. Set up a shop to keep the missus busy, no biggie. Shop started, business picks up and starts sustaining itself, profits. “Bae” went ahead and even bought herself a new Mac and an iPhone hehe. Success! Then came the killer statement… “I need x amount of money to buy this stock next week.” Amount of money which I did not have… On telling her I didn’t have, she said that she’ll get a “loan” from a friend. And then she follows up with the shocker… “if you cannot sustain me, I will get it elsewhere” Tick tock…
On January 30 this year, I came back to a empty house… She moved out with the kid and the househelp plus all their belongings. I later came to find out that they moved to another guy’s place! (hypergamy is real guys). And you know what? She took me to children’s court!! Yes, that’s right… I’m currently defending myself in court, accused by someone I’d kept in my house, catering for all, who is currently living with another man, with my kid…
And that is why I agree with the red pill guys. Bitter but true. Ni hayo tu kwa Sasa…
Nyumba alifagia kila kitu??..if you find out…did that business really buy that iMac or iPhone or the so called financier just bought them for her and she could show you that mboga yako haitoshi sasa…??anyway…my condolences to the dead affair…Pole omwami.
Kuna watu huwa patient sana. Mimi kuna vitu ukinifanyia nakutaftia genge ya mtu saba wanakupa “scars I’ll live with for the rest of my life”, without apologies.
i think i am extremely PARANOID, i mistrust all women except my mum and my sisters, hata Auntie wangu kuna siku asha cheza cheda yangu, nika lenga tu, my cards are normally close to my chest and i dont divulge much to women am dating, i would radher take my time and act with caution, all time, from lessons learned in dis world
WHERE WERE U before January 30th when the event occured
Did you Report to the police, ama ulikua unangoja arudi? ama akuambie umfuate kwa nyumba mpya
Do you have neighbours, hakuna mtu aliona akihamisha vitu, or u dont speak to ur neighbours
Things were normal, or so they appeared, b4 30th Jan. They carried their belongings, not household stuff. When I said empty house, I meant no one inside, sio kufyekwa kila kitu. Neighbors Ata hawakujua.
Pole sana bro. Some of us have gone through similar situations but moved on later. And so glad that it happened, now a million times wiser. The child could be yours but she was a hypocrite who was always playing you behind your back. As someone said, do DNA and support the kid if it’s yours and let the kunguru go drying. Kids are innocent in these betrayal games. You will be so glad after you recover from shock as she will CERTAINLY play the new sponsor… then do not get shocked to find her looking for you slyly later on!!
She was a gold digger who was not satisfied with your wealth and was always looking out there for someone who could tosha mboga and she found him. When things go south for the new well-to-do catch, she will come back to you begging with 2 more kids!!!