The War at Home

I sold my car today. Unfortunately, my wife amefura kama mandazi. As explained in an earlier thread, I needed to sell the car to purchase some hot property. I knew my wife would be against it, but since it was the sober thing to do, I did it anyway for the kid’s sake. I intend to buy the plot and put up some rentals in future because the location is strategic for commercial property. How do you deal with a disgruntled wife who wont see the big picture? Also, I explained to her we should have another car in less than 4 months because I also dont intend to stay carless for long. :mad::mad::mad::mad:. Is this why naonanga wanaume kwa bar juu ya kusumbuliwa na bibi? I have the final say in the house, but pia sipendi kuona mtu amekasirika kwa nyumba

kaseee vumilia tooo because its for better or worse… not its worse just embrace it na utwange maisha

she is pissed because her friends and neighbors will start gossiping about your financial woes. That shit gets to women.

The most important thing is that you build those rentals as soon as possible.
She is probably just concerned that you might squander all the money in the bar.
Hautaongeleshwa for a few days but I think you have a good plan.

Just stay away from the pub!

Women love keeping up appearances but she can’t stay mad forever. Unless she can.

Just tell her if you lose your job or biz that investment may be the only thing that brings food in the table or pays the bill.

For now tulia tu, after that don’t say much. Chukuwa family out and please her where you know best.

Weunijenga sana hata kama watu hukuita ka-funda

I drink occasionally but I dont have access to money meant for investment. I have never had a history of squandering cash. I also intend to make the purchase early next week because I have already completed all the due diligence and agreed with the seller. I think she is afraid that it may appear as if we are broke, especially to her gang of friends. I already have another piece of land where I will build a townhouse, and now I needed another one for commercial property but the cash was not enough. I did not see the need to take a loan and pay interest while having a car I could liquidate.

Make sure you don’t fulfill her prophecy and buy her a lollipop. That will calm her down.

What prophecy?

mwambie akiendelea kununa utamtomba mkia. Na uwe serious. hatanuna tena.

You should have consulted her.

Ile siku utamwaga… mawe na mchanga kwa site, atahakikisha umefikisha Ktalk threshold!

That’s a wise financial decision others sell property to buy a car

She feels like shes losing face mumesota her friends will talk blah blah… be like putin “no bad days I am not a woman” most importantly give her the D That should calm her down for a while

Just tolerate her, that’s what we all do and if her investment ideas aren’t harebrained just go with it. Bought a half acre due to her interaction with milk vendor from Githunguri, I am currently being offered 15x the buying price 9 years later

wise man. Women get upset at first but after they see what you were planning, they will show off to everyone how successful you are etc.

Leta number yake nimskizie you made the right decision…

Kuwa tikteta kiplani but do the right thing at the end of the day. It is very hard to live with a woman (what with all the whining), but just know your kids will appreciate your efforts some day.

Congrats bro, you’ve done the right thing. Make her understand that choices have to be made. Don’t run away from home, be there and take charge. Sometimes women need a little push to be motivated to do something. Again, keep her in your plans because you are building your home/house together. Good luck.