Okay I understand. Maybe you want to take it slow. You don't want to spook @Akon City
and he runs away. I'd recommend you first take him out to dinner and get to know him first.
You would be surprised to learn that you share so much in common. Ask him about his interests, his hobbies or his work. Pretend to be interested. Don't rush things. Soon enough he will be in your arms. No homo. These things take time.