THINK BIG: a man's lesson

Simiyu22

Village Elder
#21
It all depends with the woman you choose to cohabit with. You'll never find a perfect woman so it's always good to identify the qualities you can't miss in a woman and these you can ignore her not having. Personally a cruel /irrational/uchoyo are qualities which i won't ignore, they're deal breakers.
I think you are in the early stages of your relationship. And your relationship has never really been tested.
 
#25
Munanistua bana,mine knows my pin.
Usitishike this behaviours are unique to certain women. It's just most of these guys settle for cunning whorish women as life companions and tend to pass it as the norm of "relationships". In reality they chose to overlook bad traits just because a woman has a tight pu**y and a beautiful face. They're now narrating of the consequences. As i said before a man should have clear characters he needs in a woman , if she doesn't have them ajitoe mapema. Every woman has shortcomings but i will have a bitch with communication problems any day than one who exhibits cunning and heartless traits.
 
#28
If you think about it long enough, bila emotions you come to the realization that marriage has no benefit to a man. Lots of financial benefits kwa wife, but kwa mwanaume it has zero benefit. Afadhali kukaa a bachelor, ukulange shiku, Triza na Achieng. Atleast your money is spent on chics who make you happy even if for 1 day...badala ya hawa ma-wife sumbua. When you tire, you go home to ya bachelor pad where you have peace of mind. Unawasha ur tv in peace, na unaweka game ya ManU or Chelsea in peace...:cool:
 

digi

Village Elder
#30
That's totally ferked up. Sometimes i wonder what kind of relationship am in because i have never encountered anything close to what you guys narrate here. Mimi and my bitch we best friends banae. We never differentiate between our money in the sense of this is mine and this is yours. Let me wait though pesa serious ikuje and we'll see if things remain the same.
Manufacture financial issues asap
 

upepo

Village Elder
#31
hahahaha, ati unakopa rent na wife ako na 700k? tricky sana, nitamwambia alipe rent ya the whole year
That situation helped me a lot. Much much later alikuja na proposal ati tufanye joint venture fulani kubwa ile unaweka kila kitu. Nilimwangalia nikacheka tu. And that is how my ass was saved. One thing I like about selfish and cunning people is that they lack patience.They are unable to ignore small opportunities as they wait for a bigger one.
 

shocks

Village Elder
#32
b4 you got married, did this girl ever take you out and cover the cost. Did you ever ask for 10k utarudisha in a week? You have to do these things ndio ujue anasimama upande gani when it comes to finances. Usiwe ule jamaa wa ku cover all expenses hadi her salon then later in marriage unamshtua ati lipa rent, aje na umekuwa sugar daddy all along.
 

MarkMarco

Village Elder
#33
b4 you got married, did this girl ever take you out and cover the cost. Did you ever ask for 10k utarudisha in a week? You have to do these things ndio ujue anasimama upande gani when it comes to finances. Usiwe ule jamaa wa ku cover all expenses hadi her salon then later in marriage unamshtua ati lipa rent, aje na umekuwa sugar daddy all along.
Ukompata ako bone dry broke but very humble and kind... Hence very easily passes many tests just at hajui dunia. Baadae after amepata kakazi umemhaslia ndio they get horned and unapigwa na butwaa
 

MarkMarco

Village Elder
#34
Hehehe. Yenyewe ata mimi nishawai kopa housegirl pesa ya rent na saa hizo Madam ako na 700k kwa bank. Hiyo siku ndio ndio nilijua marriage ni business partnership. But I lived to appreciate that revelation because it prevented me from making serious blunders later on.
Najua hio kafeeling, ulifanya POA ata kukopa. Otherwise ata leo angekuwa mkikosana ana narate vile yet hulipa rent kwa nyumba iko na mwanaume. Due to that one isolated event. So actually it helped you twice
 
#35
I keep saying here and i have said it a gazilion times: DONT GET MARRIED or impregnate anyone BEFORE U HIT 30 Years. Trust me, before that u know jack shit about women, hell, u even don't yourself in the first place. I see so many niggas in their 20s rushing to 'settle down' with a damsel even before they reach their peak and full potential of manhood. FOOLS! Unless your daddy is a billionaire, wear your bachelor tag with pride until 35 or 36 years.
 
#36
b4 you got married, did this girl ever take you out and cover the cost. Did you ever ask for 10k utarudisha in a week? You have to do these things ndio ujue anasimama upande gani when it comes to finances. Usiwe ule jamaa wa ku cover all expenses hadi her salon then later in marriage unamshtua ati lipa rent, aje na umekuwa sugar daddy all along.
Girls dont operate on logic but emotions. The same girl who would rob a bank for you without thinking twice and pay all your bills is the same girl who will fleece you dry and use that money to secure the services of a 22-year-old campus boy ten years from now. They are no guarantees.
 

Big Mjulus

Senior Villager
#37
Been in this marriage shit for almost ten years but the rules are;
1. Never trust your woman to bail you financially, she will always have excuses.
2. I repeat never think of your woman's cash as security in times of shida, they will always disappoint.
3. Read rule 1 and 2 above..
But to beat around above, in case i have financial issues always borrow from my pal(Male)
 

kiprunner

Village Elder
#38
Am a very jumpy nicca after kuwa nalala msituni nikiwindana na illiterates with guns, I myself armed with a grand plan ya kujikwamua kutoka lindi la peasantry.Pesa ikiingia first nalipa rent n all household stuff alafu nakam off nugu inapigiwa simu na inapeana zile kisses nikiwa hapo.niliona badala ya kumalisia mtu niende Naivasha maximum prison, niondoke asubuhi with my documents n never look back coz I know what am capable of doing.fast foward after two months she calls anauliza kama nimekufa El adde na kutaka nilipe rent.
 
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