THINK BIG: a man's lesson

Leo my relative has called tukaongea Sana stories of old and tribulations za young marriages… When I remembered this hekaya of how I decided to go seek out of and eat nje.
Long time ago sikuwa mjanja Sana and fell for cheap scums of all types…from the tukanunue nguo gikomba tukauze scam to zile scams za gold, … Ignorance is bliss either way:D:D

one day I was super broke, ile tu hauna kitu coz of deal gone bad Soo so bad, a buddy of mine akanisaidia na keja a month as I recouped myself… Every man huhit rock bottom, this was mine with dependants. Sasa mises knew hakuna pesa ya rent na sikumuitisha . Tukahama that plot went to that keja ya beshte ,but alikuwa ameilipa prior alikuwa majuu akatuma key, tulihama before aibu ya eviction, . … the day we moved in Mises aliniambia nimpeleke town. Akanunua simu ya 2 times na more the rent ile ilikuwa tunahitaji, simu was a new phenomena then ata Mimi was using ya kazi mostly.

Kaka ushai skia kuumwa Hadi kwa intestines, kuumwa Hadi nyewele na kucha, Hadi sikulala hio siku. That’s when I realized naishigi na stranger. Nakajua marriage is overrated, nikakunja mkia, Sikumuuliza kitu, ata I acted very happy. Went back to the house… At end month mambo ikarudi form nikarent a new keja and We moved. … The plot we moved to nikasema lazima kanuke, got my first side chick and from there wamekuaga tu wakiflow in my life.

To watu ya kuoa karibuni, Your wife is your neighbor, only that your paths end in the same house after kazi. The heart Ni ya kupiga damu… Kihere here ya love achia kina soapopera… A marriage Isa lifetime negotiation with an irrational human being whose thought process changes with mood or some other devil… Anyway jijenge ajijenge akijiskia. Keep your sanity by looking forward… Mambo ya kufikiria Bibi hii Bibi ile itafanya ujirushe from a building tukule Mchele. In words of daktari,“THINK BIG”.

Most of the time I’ve discovered you talk alot of nonsense.

Today you have spoken well. The tribulations a man goes through, only him and Jesus christ himself know.

A man’s pursuit should be of wealth, money and health. The rest just come with the territory.

@markmarco,I read @digi 's comment first and he gave you a thumbs. Now I have read you and you sir got two thumbs up…

True colors za bae hutokea ugesi na mashida zikiingia.

Huyo ni kunguru, si bibi.

I can relate 100%, zile vituko mwanaume hujionea, wacah tu. Wangu alibuy 3+1 cooker na sa hio nilikua napelekwa mbio na lady shylock best yake. Ata nilikua nasuspect hio pesa nilikua nadaiwa ilikua part yake.

:D:D:D Izza bana, ndio wengine wetu hatuna haraka ya kuoa.
Kuna time nilisoma, sijui kama ni hapa ama klist, vile boy flani ilikuwa birthday yake. Sasa alikuwa wale wa ku-treat bae, kumpeleka Watamu and shit. Yaani anaspend kama fuckin kwa barafu yake ya roho, and not just on her birthday. Sasa bae pia alikuwa na job but alikuwa ana-earn less than the dude. One day, on the guy’s birthday, anadhania mpenzi wake wa dhati ana-organize at least ka-surprise bash, ama intimate outing. Wameshinda kwa nyumba the whole day, alafu around 11pm bae goes to the bedroom, comes back with a shirt (those ones that are sold in Eastleigh, can’t go for more than 1k), tells him “happy birthday”, then retires to bed.
Later on, like two days later the guy is looking for some document when he chances upon bae’s ATM receipt. Totoise alikuwa na balance ya 400k kwa account yake. Nigga was so hurt yaani vile mtu ako na 400k na bado humwitisha pesa za sijui nywele na nguo, na anambuyia shati ya thao on his birthday. Kutoka hiyo siku aka-internalize ile saying ya “every man for himuselefu…”.

Pole captain. Hope hiyo t-shirt ulirarua na kutupa nje ya balcony

That’s how the game is played. But in their defense I will say this;

Ni wewe ume jipeleka hapo

99.9999 percent of the time.

But be glad that yours was a relatively ‘small’ lesson. Iko watu wamechujwa kutoka keja zao Runda

But did he really own that house. There’s a story behind it.
Also remember, you can never downgrade a woman. Buy a house in Runda, that house is hers. You can never sell it. No matter how broke you are. She would rather divorce you. And the law is behind her. Purchase a house in Runda at your own peril.

Mazee hio ndio wakati unakumbuka all the sighns uliona ukaignore.

Kumbe financial crisis Ni yako peke yako, yeye haimhusu at haiwezi mtikisa ata kidogo… At least uligundua mapema.

insightful

Hehehe. Yenyewe ata mimi nishawai kopa housegirl pesa ya rent na saa hizo Madam ako na 700k kwa bank. Hiyo siku ndio ndio nilijua marriage ni business partnership. But I lived to appreciate that revelation because it prevented me from making serious blunders later on.

That’s totally ferked up. Sometimes i wonder what kind of relationship am in because i have never encountered anything close to what you guys narrate here. Mimi and my bitch we best friends banae. We never differentiate between our money in the sense of this is mine and this is yours. Let me wait though pesa serious ikuje and we’ll see if things remain the same.

When the man has more, the money is jointly owned. When the woman has more, restrictions apply. Chunga sana. Men who trust women wholly encounter dust at some point. ile siku utafukuzwa nyumba yako ndio utajua babu zako walikuwa wajuaji.

It all depends with the woman you choose to cohabit with. You’ll never find a perfect woman so it’s always good to identify the qualities you can’t miss in a woman and these you can ignore her not having. Personally a cruel /irrational/uchoyo are qualities which i won’t ignore, they’re deal breakers.

A lesson learnt too late…

A quote i read inside one of Nairobbery city’s public toilets put it this way;

"A man’s ambition must be small, to graffiti his name on a shit house wall…
But a woman’s must be smaller still, to get married and be fckued at will"

Wapi nilisoma jama alikuwa analipa rent kumbe landlady ni khupipi @Ice_Cube tafuta link