All men will marry but not all men (like 40%) were attractive enough in their early twenties to get or keep a girlfriend
So why did the women marry these 40% whom they could not have earlier given a second thought:
It’s simple: these guys got jobs and had that stable provider factor. Remove that and the woman has totally no reason to stay with the guy.
Why this is the case:
It is that people (women) date those they truly love but not all women marry the men they’re into.
This is a consequence of the modern culture mixed with the traditional culture. When a person is dating, around under 24 years they’ve nothing to worry of, it’s all about exploring and one main thing: their finances are being provided by the parent.
But once a person passes 24 years they have to look for a job and now one factor which is a game changer comes in: a woman has to look for a guy with a stable job, and that changes everything.
Most guys with the jobs may be a totally different type of people that the woman earlier dated. Maybe some are simps.
And that applies when a woman is choosing a marriage patner and it is in fact the main thing considered: stable job. Thus giving rise to a situation where a woman loves only your finances and the stable life you give her but not you.
That’s why you find men complaining of a sexless marriage or of limited sex because the woman has no attraction towards you… and the sex she gave you during honeymoon just to please you it’s mission is now over
Or you find a situation like a talker once said back (couldn’t trace it) of a man who bought the wife a car but just days later the talker slept with the wife.
Kuna different type of s3x you can get from a woman, It all depend on the hierarchy the lady puts you in.
*Transactional s3x, if she has something to gain out of you (Money, Job, Favour) she does the bare minimum. This is what simps get in marriage in order to keep paying the bills and raise the kids.
*Lust s3x :- She is turned on by the sight and presence of you. She let her self go fully and thats when you get the nasty shit.You can’t get this level of s3x with a prostitute. It mostly has to do with how you look & vibe (muscular & serious manly vibe) This is what most gym trainers get.
Other stories wachieni the Cosmopolitan magazine,tafuta pesa and do other things that interest you.Stop rotating around women,a marriage can survive if a woman wants so Kama hataki or nothing you can do.
It’s even written in the Bible by her own hands she creates her family,it’s also recorded in Genesis a woman called Eve lived with Adam in a perfect garden but a snake ingizad her box to do other things,sembuse wewe?
Kuna Ukweli happy.Kwanza those men who make it in life earlier ,they attract slay queens who later find incompatible.Na mwanaume akikosa pesa anavuka na waiter ama below his likes( nakusema ‘Sio Kabaya saaana’)later finds incompatible.