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Ukumbaff ya Mabibi

Kigui

Village Elder
#1
You have this Bibi that you love. She gave you your dream kids. All is well, you're providing for everything. You do your best to invest for the future. Bibi starts ignoring your calls. You're away from home risking to die in mission. I have a friend in USAF, tumshauri nini? He asked me for help. Mimi sijui sana.
 

kwido

Village Elder
#2
This is not the whole story.....kuna mengi tusiyoyajua.
Majukukumu ya mume katika ndoa ni mengi mno. Ni ujinga wa hali ya juu kufikiria jukumu la mume ni kutafuta fedha za kugharamia maisha ya Sasa na ya usoni!
In short, it is not enough to just 'provide'.....a woman needs to feel loved, cared for and respected. She must feel that she is a part of the union and so must be involved in matters touching on the marriage. Please don't get me wrong, m not saying that u should take ur payslip to her but involve her in ur investment decisions.
Your guy is hiding something from u! A woman doesn't just wake up and start ignoring ur calls even if she is paged ( during this time hormones are jumbled up). Kuna kitu huyu bwana hasemi na kwahivyo hawezi saidika.....mficha uchi hazai!
 
#5
You have this Bibi that you love. She gave you your dream kids. All is well, you're providing for everything. You do your best to invest for the future. Bibi starts ignoring your calls. You're away from home risking to die in mission. I have a friend in USAF, tumshauri nini? He asked me for help. Mimi sijui sana.
We are convinced that this guy seeking help is you and not anybody else.
Vile @uwesMalaya alisema one day,
BIBI NI WA KUZAA.
Uko na pesa nyingi, get a messager for your wife. You don't need to worry or force her into phone conversations that she ignores by choice.
Nasema hivi:
Find a young beautiful girl that you'll use to pass your communications home. Send her money too and instruct her to withdraw it from mpesa/bank and take it to your wife in cash, and let your wife know from her the purpose intended for each amount given. We kuja December, weka mimba, rudi kwenye inakuaga. Tumia dem pesa ya hosi alete home- prenatal, antenatal, postnatal yote.
I hope umesaidika
 
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Tom Bayeye

Village Chief
#6
You have this Bibi that you love. She gave you your dream kids. All is well, you're providing for everything. You do your best to invest for the future. Bibi starts ignoring your calls. You're away from home risking to die in mission. I have a friend in USAF, tumshauri nini? He asked me for help. Mimi sijui sana.
That must be @luoamerican. Mwambie asinunue vitu zingine ama awache number ya khupipi hapa kijijini tutamjulisha vile hali inaendelea .On the other hand ,methinks its you
 

Slim_fit

Village Elder
#7
the only way your wife would ignore your calls is if:
1. She doesn't have the phone with her
2.Hufikishi threshhold
3.Anatombwa na nigga ingine

He should seek the truth from her. Ikilemea amfukuze
 
#9
This is not the whole story.....kuna mengi tusiyoyajua.
Majukukumu ya mume katika ndoa ni mengi mno. Ni ujinga wa hali ya juu kufikiria jukumu la mume ni kutafuta fedha za kugharamia maisha ya Sasa na ya usoni!
In short, it is not enough to just 'provide'.....a woman needs to feel loved, cared for and respected. She must feel that she is a part of the union and so must be involved in matters touching on the marriage. Please don't get me wrong, m not saying that u should take ur payslip to her but involve her in ur investment decisions.
Your guy is hiding something from u! A woman doesn't just wake up and start ignoring ur calls even if she is paged ( during this time hormones are jumbled up). Kuna kitu huyu bwana hasemi na kwahivyo hawezi saidika.....mficha uchi hazai!
MEJINGA MKUBWA NI WEWE SASA BAADA AKOMBE.
yeah there is more to that story but my friend when the lady or the ladies are searching for husbands now all they need is a stable man and when you get in you now want to be involved and suggest money is not all????????????? be serious, with money you should seat your ass and pick the call and kneel when asked.
 

Kigui

Village Elder
#13
This is not the whole story.....kuna mengi tusiyoyajua.
Majukukumu ya mume katika ndoa ni mengi mno. Ni ujinga wa hali ya juu kufikiria jukumu la mume ni kutafuta fedha za kugharamia maisha ya Sasa na ya usoni!
In short, it is not enough to just 'provide'.....a woman needs to feel loved, cared for and respected. She must feel that she is a part of the union and so must be involved in matters touching on the marriage. Please don't get me wrong, m not saying that u should take ur payslip to her but involve her in ur investment decisions.
Your guy is hiding something from u! A woman doesn't just wake up and start ignoring ur calls even if she is paged ( during this time hormones are jumbled up). Kuna kitu huyu bwana hasemi na kwahivyo hawezi saidika.....mficha uchi hazai!
Sorry for the delay kwa majibu. The guy tells me its impossible for his lady to be paged(?). But mambo ya pesa hataki kusema sana.
 

Kigui

Village Elder
#16
We are convinced that this guy seeking help is you and not anybody else.
Vile @uwesMalaya alisema one day,
BIBI NI WA KUZAA.
Uko na pesa nyingi, get a messager for your wife. You don't need to worry or force her into phone conversations that she ignores by choice.
Nasema hivi:
Find a young beautiful girl that you'll use to pass your communications home. Send her money too and instruct her to withdraw it from mpesa/bank and take it to your wife in cash, and let your wife know from her the purpose intended for each amount given. We kuja December, weka mimba, rudi kwenye inakuaga. Tumia dem pesa ya hosi alete home- prenatal, antenatal, postnatal yote.
I hope umesaidika

I agree with you somehow. Kama bibi hachukui simu, wacha akae vivyo hivyo. I now understand hawa ni couples hawaeleni on how to spend their cash. I wont advice him to get a 23 yr old, hiyo ni hasara tu. Jaribu hiyo majuu na utajua hujui.
 
#18
I agree with you somehow. Kama bibi hachukui simu, wacha akae vivyo hivyo. I now understand hawa ni couples hawaeleni on how to spend their cash. I wont advice him to get a 23 yr old, hiyo ni hasara tu. Jaribu hiyo majuu na utajua hujui.
A woman is meant to be submissive by default. I just can't understand how it reaches to a point of her ignoring my call... The moment you call her for the second time without her returning the first missed call, the moment her power to ignore again and again shoots. Don't even presume she can ignore your call, ata kama umemchapa. Call once, and give her all the time to return your missed call.
 

Kigui

Village Elder
#19
A woman is meant to be submissive by default. I just can't understand how it reaches to a point of her ignoring my call... The moment you call her for the second time without her returning the first missed call, the moment her power to ignore again and again shoots. Don't even presume she can ignore your call, ata kama umemchapa. Call once, and give her all the time to return your missed call.
Hapo I agree, Call once, hii ukumbafu mingi ya kupigia mtu mzima mara tano ndiyo sielewi. Nimemueleza anunue simu ya nyumba. Kama bibi hataki kuongea, yeye aongee na watoto.
 
#20
Hapo I agree, Call once, hii ukumbafu mingi ya kupigia mtu mzima mara tano ndiyo sielewi. Nimemueleza anunue simu ya nyumba. Kama bibi hataki kuongea, yeye aongee na watoto.
Mmmmmh... Kumbe ata ni housewife? Then she pretends to be busier than the husband, who is actively busy working? Wanawake wengine ni matako sana, how does silence solve problems between couples? She's just behaving like a kid. Hawa ni wale ata hawatakagi kuambiwa makosa yao, utamwambia na akunyamazie, expecting you to apologize.
It's dangerous to live with such a person
 

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