Understanding women

Fisi

Village Elder
#1
Whoever said women are complicated and don't know what they want was right.

I have known this woman whom I met at my workplace for three years when she came in as supplier looking for business. We exchanged contacts and later in the week I started flirting with her. Coincidentally she was my neighbor and later on I invited her to my place. She became a frequent visitor where we could hang out and slices sessions later on. I later expressed interest in dating her as in making her my girlfriend but she insisted that we just become friends with benefits. I agreed and said that I was down for whatever as long as there was constant supply of punani.

After some time she started acting like she was interested in a relationship and was even saying that I had friendzoned her. She started becoming attached and even later on invited me for dinner and introduced me to her siblings. Remember all this time there was relationship just FWB.

So early this year I coincidentally met her with her sister at a club where we were with my bro, his chic and some buddies. She told me she loves me and I was honestly caught by surprise. When I introduced her to my bro she "jokingly" said that I refused to date and marry her. I just laughed it off but thought to myself "maybe she can become a good woman to me, why not try"

Later in the week I invited her for a coffee date where I declared that I would like as to be exclusive. She agreed but funny enough this is when the drama started. Mara sijui you are not doing this and that, you don't create time for me, you don't take me as a priority. This is despite the fact that I would sometimes ask her out and she declined.

So the moment I don't give my time or show any interest is when you want me including offering slices on a silver platter but when the interest is there you start acting distant and its like you are doing me a favour.

So last Friday we went out and after some few drinks, she started her usual whining. I told her I didn't like her talk in trying to put me down as a man and that's not the kind of woman I am looking for. I told her to leave and continued having fun with my friends.

Funny enough the whole of this week, the sister has been calling me every day including today at 6.30 in the morning about some funny careers choices of hers but brings in the sister's drama in the mix. I am now wondering are these people crazy ama women are like this? BTW I have not talked to her since that Friday and have no intention of doing so in the foreseeable future.

I think women like to be ignored so they can work for your attention like kids or they don't know what they want.
 
#3
makosa ya kwanza kabisa ni ati yeye ndio "alipropose" na ilikuwa kwa bar na akakiri anakupenda..so iyo ni kingfisher strawberry ilikuwa inaongea..pili iyo statement umesema ya mwisho ni ukweli mtupu and i can attest ..see juzijuzi there's a time sikuwa napigiwa nguo pasi...everymorning wakati najitayarisha ndio nguo zinapigwa pasi ,wasting time,which was inconveniencing juu sikuwa na time ya kushiba breakfast.Then one day during my off nikapeleka nguo zote kwa dhobi pale madukani...the whole week kila mahali tukipita naye ilikuwa tu sifa ya "brikz leo unakaa fiti"....The week that followed nilipata nimepigiwa pasi kila kitu hadi socks
 
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pamba

Village Sponsor
#6
Whoever said women are complicated and don't know what they want was right.

I have known this woman whom I met at my workplace for three years when she came in as supplier looking for business. We exchanged contacts and later in the week I started flirting with her. Coincidentally she was my neighbor and later on I invited her to my place. She became a frequent visitor where we could hang out and slices sessions later on. I later expressed interest in dating her as in making her my girlfriend but she insisted that we just become friends with benefits. I agreed and said that I was down for whatever as long as there was constant supply of punani.

After some time she started acting like she was interested in a relationship and was even saying that I had friendzoned her. She started becoming attached and even later on invited me for dinner and introduced me to her siblings. Remember all this time there was relationship just FWB.

So early this year I coincidentally met her with her sister at a club where we were with my bro, his chic and some buddies. She told me she loves me and I was honestly caught by surprise. When I introduced her to my bro she "jokingly" said that I refused to date and marry her. I just laughed it off but thought to myself "maybe she can become a good woman to me, why not try"

Later in the week I invited her for a coffee date where I declared that I would like as to be exclusive. She agreed but funny enough this is when the drama started. Mara sijui you are not doing this and that, you don't create time for me, you don't take me as a priority. This is despite the fact that I would sometimes ask her out and she declined.

So the moment I don't give my time or show any interest is when you want me including offering slices on a silver platter but when the interest is there you start acting distant and its like you are doing me a favour.

So last Friday we went out and after some few drinks, she started her usual whining. I told her I didn't like her talk in trying to put me down as a man and that's not the kind of woman I am looking for. I told her to leave and continued having fun with my friends.

Funny enough the whole of this week, the sister has been calling me every day including today at 6.30 in the morning about some funny careers choices of hers but brings in the sister's drama in the mix. I am now wondering are these people crazy ama women are like this? BTW I have not talked to her since that Friday and have no intention of doing so in the foreseeable future.

I think women like to be ignored so they can work for your attention like kids or they don't know what they want.
Tafuta bibi kutoka tribe yako, kuna kitu inaitwa culture clash imesumbua vijana kwa ndoa sana na hata kama ni tribe yako fanya research kwa clan yao kama wako na ukunguru ( divorce rate in their clan).
 

Fisi

Village Elder
#8
makosa ya kwanza kabisa ni ati yeye ndio "alipropose" na ilikuwa kwa bar na akakiri anakupenda..so iyo ni kingfisher strawberry ilikuwa inaongea..pili iyo statement umesema ya mwisho ni ukweli mtupu and i can attest ..see juzijuzi there's a time sikuwa napigiwa nguo pasi...everymorning wakati najitayarisha ndio nguo zinapigwa pasi ,wasting time,which was inconveniencing juu sikuwa na time ya kushiba breakfast.Then one day during my off nikapeleka nguo zote kwa dhobi pale madukani...the whole week kila mahali tukipita naye ilikuwa tu sifa ya "brikz leo unakaa fiti"....The week that followed nilipata nimepigiwa pasi kila kitu hadi socks
Makosa ilikuwa wapi akiniambia ananipenda? Ama now she has been trying to take the power back after she realised her blunder
 
#17
Women are not complicated bro.. A woman's needs are dual in nature, she either wants to be dicked till kingdom come or be provided for; thus the alpha and beta dichotomy.

In your case, You are the one who proposed a relationship/exclusivity and she turned you down.. She interpreted it as weakness and she didn't perceive you as a beta earlier on. Hapa ni wewe uliji-choma.

Men don't seek relationships, that is the work of women.. You should have taken your slices before hii madharau yote ianze.

Sister yake akijileta, kula slices.. Acha hii story ya exclusivity na relationships, that is beta behavior.

Alafu wacha kukula your neighbors, ile drama itakupata itabidi uhame
 

kasaman

Village Elder
#20
Whoever said women are complicated and don't know what they want was right.

I have known this woman whom I met at my workplace for three years when she came in as supplier looking for business. We exchanged contacts and later in the week I started flirting with her. Coincidentally she was my neighbor and later on I invited her to my place. She became a frequent visitor where we could hang out and slices sessions later on. I later expressed interest in dating her as in making her my girlfriend but she insisted that we just become friends with benefits. I agreed and said that I was down for whatever as long as there was constant supply of punani.

After some time she started acting like she was interested in a relationship and was even saying that I had friendzoned her. She started becoming attached and even later on invited me for dinner and introduced me to her siblings. Remember all this time there was relationship just FWB.

So early this year I coincidentally met her with her sister at a club where we were with my bro, his chic and some buddies. She told me she loves me and I was honestly caught by surprise. When I introduced her to my bro she "jokingly" said that I refused to date and marry her. I just laughed it off but thought to myself "maybe she can become a good woman to me, why not try"

Later in the week I invited her for a coffee date where I declared that I would like as to be exclusive. She agreed but funny enough this is when the drama started. Mara sijui you are not doing this and that, you don't create time for me, you don't take me as a priority. This is despite the fact that I would sometimes ask her out and she declined.

So the moment I don't give my time or show any interest is when you want me including offering slices on a silver platter but when the interest is there you start acting distant and its like you are doing me a favour.

So last Friday we went out and after some few drinks, she started her usual whining. I told her I didn't like her talk in trying to put me down as a man and that's not the kind of woman I am looking for. I told her to leave and continued having fun with my friends.

Funny enough the whole of this week, the sister has been calling me every day including today at 6.30 in the morning about some funny careers choices of hers but brings in the sister's drama in the mix. I am now wondering are these people crazy ama women are like this? BTW I have not talked to her since that Friday and have no intention of doing so in the foreseeable future.

I think women like to be ignored so they can work for your attention like kids or they don't know what they want.
What is marrage ??????
The fact you sleep with a woman get kids ,live in same house ,sleep in same bed,even your ppl,both side knows about your affairs does not mean you are married ! Check what is happening today ! 20190718_174523.jpg
 

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