Utalea hutalea? I may be a deadbeat dad, soon.

From the thread: https://www.kenyatalk.com/index.php?threads/what-would-you-do.46799/
After a few days of confirming that the woman was pregnant(I am not sure if it was mine) we quarreled over several issues, one being that I was increasingly losing trust on her, reason being suggestive messages I had seen but kwanza nkalenga. She was blaming me for my unbecoming attitude towards her which had coincided with the pregnancy, and as such I was accused of attempting to run away from responsibilities. An attempt to confirm the messages I had seen bore no fruit since she had deleted all of them, so I had no evidence to substantiate my accusations.

In order to cool her down and for the sake of her peace, I even apologized but deep inside I knew I would eventually get her because Ktalk wahenga have said time and time again that Kunguru hafugiki.
On that Monday evening, I tried to reach her but she was not available, till next day on Tuesday at 9…all this time my mind telling me something fishy may be going on. On phone, she informed me she was at friend’s place. On afternoon, she said she was still at friend’s place. My instinct told me this woman may be cheating. So I made an impromptu visit to her house without informing her. And true to my guess, I found them. I waited for more than 7 min before the door opened…didn’t bother who the man was, just confirmed indeed it was a man, and walked away. I can’t recognize him if I was to meet him right outside this house. I just left, never to look back. The relief was classic, but again huwes imagine kukamuliwa mdem. She was claiming ataitoa but I am not sure ka ni threats ama ni cha ukweli… Wakubwa btw what can you do to such woman, if mimba ni yako but you can’t be together? Utalea hutalea?
CC @Budspencer , @WuTang
Matusi, maoni, yanakaribishwa

Kama mtoi ni wako(DNA hapa lazima) huna budi

wait? ulimangiwa mwoman akiwa na ball yako???

To find out if the kid is yours or the prefered candidate she was with is a hardy boys mystery… That only Lord knows… Lick your wounds… And move on swiftly.

First improve your ferking game
Secondly, chances are that the child is not yours but if she is (you don’t sound the type to sire a boy), raise and her using her mother as a reference of how not to live…

In all honesty though, I can’t raise a child born of a woman with hoeish tendencies.

This is what I swore. Sigwes. Seems getting pregnant was a ticket to be a whore

Sigwes. Is it my failure to make the whore cheat?

Kama mtoto ni wako lazima utalea. Whether or not the mother is a ‘whore.’ Alafu kuita wanawake ho after apate mimba ni style ingine ya kuruka dem, you won’t be the first to look for excuses. Tunakuonea mbali sana… Labda the man alikuwa bro yake lakini you didn’t even wait to hear the story…Pole lakini 18 years bruh…:D:D

mtoto akizaliwa uletewe then u-insist on DNA. we had a curious case in the children’s department where three different men - a kerugoya trader, a murang’a matatu driver and an AP officer previously in murang’a but now based in nyeri - were paying child maintenance for the same child…

Plot twist: You get to suspect that she is dishing it out and the kid is yours…alizaliwa kitambo. What would you do?

Sorry @Chifu usinipe stool hehehe

You give that woman a medal. She did the best she could with what the gods blessed her with…mtoto

Agreed with @shocks
Just walk away… there is nothing left to salvage. Do not give her a dime without performing a DNA test and confirming whether you are the baby’s father.

Hehe…let me be honest here, I was not willing to marry the woman after findinf suggestive messages, + other things I won’t mention in this forum because talkers will think I am too soft or too forgivin:D. Naona mtu aje nkiwa chuoni? Asha. Apana. Akanyal

Shizzle my nizzle! I am not going to zalia a Kenyan Dude. The TINGS I continue to read here are depressing. Pole Chifu. Lakini lea mtoto after DNA.

Ati uko shule…kijana why mess your life like that na CD ziko…kama ni wako lazima utalea…dont be a deadbeat

Kama ni mimi naeza fanya dna ya mtoi ni confirm kama ni wangu then nimchukue cha lazima…i Can’t sleep while back of my mind i can see my kid calling men who come to visit the whoring mom uncles.

But again… Mtoto si wako. Ukienda kucheat na dame ana bol na si yako, mtoto huwa anagwara ama anauma deek juu unachafua roho yake. True story bro.

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I hope it’s true

@Purple …Madaady wengine sijui kama wamesoma ‘Kansitution’. Ehh hiyo.

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Hehehe! :smiley: