Extremely annoying. Constant cause of friction between my mum and I. Sipendi. Just let me know when you are coming, how hard can this be?. But perhaps what is more tricky for us is entertaining friends and relatives from .ke who jet in and only let you know when they are here. And they want to spend sometime with you. So am I supposed to drop my plans and show you around and entertain you? na ukikataa wanasema una maringo.