today i remembered an incident that happened many years ago. i had a friend whose friendship was like that of ndagitari wanjohi and his buddy Theuri. My friend had married before me and they lived in nyairobi while i lived in naikuru. they even had a housegirl. so, one time my then new girlfriend (now my PM) decided to accompany me to Nairobi (a job interview to change the existing job, and a few errands as i did not get to the city often). My friend invited us to spend at his place, but incidentally his wife had traveled upcountry. Their house plan was that to move from one bedroom to the other one you had to pass through the table room, an awkward design. me and my girlfriend slept at the table room night one. the following day my friend took me out as we talk things of men. he told me, "wewe unajua jana sikuweza kusuguliwa mgongo sababu tuliogopa kuonekana tukipitana kwa table room usiku". Nikavuruta aerial pap! "tufane mpango, leo tunaambia gacheri (house girl) hamjalala vizuri kwa kiti, awapatie bedroom yake, na yeye alale kwa seat. ni vibaya sana girlfriend wako akijua ninararua gacheri, wanawake sio wa kuaminika." we toasted to that brilliant idea because i knew i would also ramnya mine withour fear coz she is the noisy type moto ikiwaka. my friend would later thank me a million times for the good understanding. for the next two nights, it was total enjoyment and no girl knew we had a plan, to date. wanawake wanaweza okoleana hiyo design kweli?